Why do men like to brag?

Although there are differences in degree, all men have the element of "bragging". The best of them is the adventure story of "Baron Munchausen".

"I was swimming in the ocean. Suddenly, a huge fish swallowed me. My goodness... his stomach was so big and dark.

I was tap dancing in his belly. This made the fish extremely frightened. He surrendered to me and then spit me out. .

This person spoke these "big words" calmly. After hearing his words, even a child would know that he was "盖". However, there are still many people like this baron. When the politician who returned from the United States was surrounded by a group of reporters at the airport, he put on airs and said, "I never thought that the Secretary of State would be shocked by my casual boasting. He was very moved and asked to shake my hand."

Why do men like to brag so much? Are men so stupid that they don't know that people who hear them will "blow" their bragging?

This is not the case. Men like to brag because they have a desire to show off themselves.

In other words, at that moment, the desire to show off overwhelmed the judgment that "the boast will be exposed", making him paralyzed. A boastful man, looking at and listening to people with sighing expressions (in fact, dazed expressions), will enter a state of self-intoxication.

Some people may find my analysis that bragging involves self-indulgence confusing.

However, once you understand the psychological state of bragging (it feels refreshing and makes people feel excited. It is commonly known as a state that makes people feel happy), you will agree with my analysis. In addition, when bragging, reality and fantasy will be confused, causing the person concerned to mistakenly believe it is true, making what he says more realistic. As long as you understand these two points, you will suddenly realize that in such occasions, there are two major types of men's bragging. One is like the bragging baron mentioned above, whose purpose is nothing more than to give people who hear it a "sense of surprise." And I also like to see the listeners open their eyes wide and say exclamations like "Wow!", "Oh?", "Oh my God!", etc.

On the other hand, this type of man is also a service-oriented person. Because without anyone asking him to do so, he could talk endlessly to a group of people. At the same time, he also has a strong desire to "get attention."

All in all, he just tried every means to make people around him pay attention to him. For example, when he is in a bar, he can also talk nonsense in front of strangers for a while. When those people say to him, "You just made this up, right?" instead of getting angry, he will smile.

When there is a occasion for congratulations or consolation, those who like to pick out other people's gossip, and speak some big words that seem to have been heard before, using their status as respected and wise people, also belong to this category.

Under normal circumstances, "bragging" can be said to be a harmless and harmless lie - but apart from this, there is another type of "bragging" that, like the politicians mentioned above, contains the suspicion of self-promotion. This matter is nothing more than an attempt to "re-evaluate oneself" in order to elevate one's own status.

"Indeed, he is not just an ordinary person, but a very remarkable person.

This is what he really meant by bragging. It is indeed a superficial act, enough to make people think it is "pitiful and sad". However, asking them to brag a little bit can also help liven up the conversation. When he gradually becomes too proud of himself and feels that the sentences he writes are incoherent, he will inevitably be exposed. On the other hand, you must absolutely restrain yourself so as not to be misled by him.

"At that time, I was immersed in invention, and a certain woman launched a passionate love offensive against me... However, at that time, I...

Such confessional "bragging" using reminiscence as a medium is likely to hook you, so you have to be especially careful.

--This kind of "bragging" rhapsody trumpet sometimes produces a variety of different timbres. You have to distinguish them carefully.