What are the disadvantages of external ejaculation?

I haven't worn an IUD since I gave birth. What are the disadvantages of external ejaculation? My husband and I often use condoms, and sometimes we don't even know we're out of them. My husband is worried that I'm pregnant, so he resorts to external ejaculation. I've had this kind of external ejaculation before, and didn't find any problems, and I didn't take it seriously. By chance, I saw a book saying that this has many bad effects on the body. I'll immediately tell you what the disadvantages of external ejaculation are.

1. It can easily cause sexual neurasthenia in men

During the entire process of sexual life, a man's sexual response is controlled by the cerebral cortex. The psychological and physiological stimulation during sexual intercourse will cause a series of changes, and high excitement will cause mental tension, accelerated heartbeat, increased blood pressure, etc. At the same time, the reproductive organs move as the blood vessels in the penis become congested and the muscles contract. If sexual intercourse is interrupted at this time, people will feel that they have not yet had enough fun, which will inevitably have a negative impact on sexual psychology. Over time, it is easy to develop sexual neurasthenia, causing premature ejaculation, impotence, etc.

2. It may cause functional anejaculation

During male sexual intercourse, due to the climax of sexual excitement, the penis is erect and hard before ejaculation. If sexual intercourse is forcibly stopped and the penis is pulled out at this time, the function of the central nervous system and the lumbar ejaculation center will be impaired. Over time, it is easy to suffer from functional anejaculation.

3. It can easily cause discord between couples

Normal, moderate and harmonious sex life can enhance the relationship between couples, but unscientific contraceptive methods such as ejaculation outside the body often cause estrangement between couples. Once the woman becomes pregnant, the man often thinks that it was not the small part of his semen (the small part that overflows before ejaculation) that flowed into the vagina that caused the pregnancy (contraceptive failure), but instead mistakenly believes that the woman had an affair and was unfaithful, which causes quarrels and leads to family misfortune. If sexual intercourse is forcibly interrupted, the woman will not be fully satisfied, her sexual psychology will be suppressed, and she will develop an aversion to sexual intercourse, which will also cast a shadow on the relationship between the couple.

The above is a brief introduction to the disadvantages of external ejaculation that I read in a book. It made me realize that external ejaculation has so many disadvantages. This sexual ability is particularly important for men. I must not ignore the physical harm to my husband because I am afraid of pregnancy. Next time, I must prepare more condoms and control my emotions when I don’t have them.