"Ejaculation" has nothing to do with "orgasm"

You can always think of ejaculation as the ultimate goal of sex, but the fact is that ejaculation can be separated from intense pleasure. If all you need is the ultimate pleasure of excitement, it doesn't mean you will definitely pay for that 4cc of liquid whose calories are equivalent to 12 peanuts, half an apple, and 50 grams of potatoes.

Some prepubertal boys have had hundreds of "dry orgasms", that is, orgasms without ejaculation. There are also reports indicating that some males can record rhythmic contractions of the penis during the first few orgasms - that is, they have orgasms but no ejaculation, and only ejaculate during the last orgasm. This is the separation of orgasm and ejaculation.

Therefore, when a man reaches orgasm but does not ejaculate, his sexual ability is not lost and he can still continue sexual activities. On the other hand, men may also ejaculate without any sexual activity or orgasm, for example, some men may ejaculate when they are frightened or electrocuted.

Men ≠ Only have one orgasm

Most men believe that male orgasm is linear and easy to achieve, so they are most concerned about how to control their behavior to make women orgasm repeatedly. However, in a study, biologists Dunn and Trost asked 21 men aged between 25 and 69 about their orgasms. The results showed that 13 of them claimed that they could experience 2 to 9 orgasms, 6 of whom happened to have experienced multiple orgasms and then continued to do so; the other two learned through careful training and study to get through the refractory period after the first orgasm through self-stimulation.

However, while sex experts do not deny that men can also have "multiple orgasms", they do clearly state that men's multiple orgasms may increase with age, and there is no need for ordinary people to deliberately pursue this ability.

Faking an orgasm is not a woman's patent

Women "fake" during sex because they don't want to disappoint men. Men experience more pressure during sex than women, so they may occasionally have a "white lie"-style climax.

Some men admitted that they had faked orgasms before, "because the other person had already had two or three orgasms, and if she knew that I didn't orgasm, she would be disappointed, so I pretended to make her believe that I ejaculated." Some people also want to end it as soon as possible when they feel bad about themselves, so they fake an orgasm. According to a 1997 survey by Elliott and Brantley, 17% of heterosexual men and 27% of homosexual men have faked orgasms.

Of course, in most cases men do not need to pretend, because it is not difficult for them to climax, and it is also difficult to pretend, unless the other party is too careless and does not notice that the man has not ejaculated at all.

One hour of long-distance running does not equal perfect pleasure

Men quantify their lives with numbers, always ready to stopwatch, and interpret life as an athletic competition: How far can I run? How much weight can you lift? How many times should I pump?

Disappointingly, however, long-distance running does not equal perfect pleasure.

Most men believe that strong ejaculation control and long sexual intercourse duration are ideal, otherwise they will disappoint women because women often desire longer stimulation. However, in sexology clinics, the wives of patients with anejaculation are not particularly happy because the men have long sexual intercourse. They said that the long time only made them feel tired and bored, without any pleasure at all. Women often easily reach orgasm through direct stimulation of sensitive areas during caressing before and after sexual intercourse.

Sperm is also lustful

A survey by the University of Valencia in Spain shows that the quality of sperm of handsome men is as outstanding as their appearance. The scientists first tested the quality of the sperm, and then asked some women to objectively evaluate the appearance of the sperm owner. The result is that men with good sperm quality are all handsome.