Men and women love this kind of "night talk" in bed

Sexual life is a regulator of the relationship between husband and wife, and it is also a way for couples to express their love. However, there are some issues in the process of sexual life that are often discussed between men and women. The following are the six most popular sexual issues that men and women like to discuss.

Question 1: Do other people have more time than we do?

The descriptions of sexual intercourse in educational films or adult novels can be described as a "marathon". If compared with this, the men around us may all suffer from premature ejaculation. But the truth is, the individual differences in sexual intercourse time are very large, about 2-15 minutes.

If the duration is relatively short, you cannot conclude that it is premature ejaculation. First consider relieving the stress on your body.

Question 2: Are we having sex too infrequently?

The results of a global survey conducted by a condom brand last year showed that the average number of sexual intercourse per person worldwide is 103 times per year, while that of Chinese people is 96 times. If you pay too much attention to this data, the answer is probably "yes". In fact, the key question is not how often you do it, but why you do it so often. In our overcrowded, breathless days, the decrease in the frequency of sexual activity actually has little to do with sex itself.

Question 3: Is it shameful to fantasize about other men during sex?

Sexual fantasies are very common. Experts point out that when you fantasize about a handsome guy during sex, if you try to drive him out of your mind, the quality of your sex life will undoubtedly be affected. For some people in particular, sexual fantasies can help increase sexual pleasure and help you discover what excites you most so you can try new things in your sex life.

Question 4: Are private parts really that important during foreplay?

The private parts of men and women are extremely rich in nerve endings, and touching them can definitely help stimulate desire. Sex therapists suggest that during sex, both men and women should gently caress these extremely sensitive nerve areas as if they were their babies, and the movements must not be rough.

Question 5: The clitoris is too small, does this affect orgasm?

If someone said to you, "Your nose is small, which affects your sense of smell," you would definitely laugh at him and think he was stupid. The same goes for the clitoris; size has little impact on the ability to feel an orgasm. Women's organs will become engorged and swollen after excitement, and will become noticeably larger. Many women need to stimulate the clitoris to reach orgasm, so they think it is only related to the clitoris. In fact, when the peak comes, the uterus, vagina and the entire pelvic muscles will undergo a series of rhythmic contractions, so there is no need to focus on the clitoris. Many scholars believe that the largest organ is the brain, which is especially important for women.

Question 6: Why do people cry after the peak?

Peak is a process of great psychological and physiological release, and different people will express it in different ways, such as groaning, screaming, or even crying. It is not strange to cry if you feel extremely happy and relaxed mentally. Don't be embarrassed, this at least proves one thing: your sex life is not boring at all.