What causes orgasm disorders?

The occurrence of orgasm disorder is definitely not without reason. Simply put, there are two main factors that cause orgasm disorders: one is psychological and the other is physical. Only by identifying the cause can we prescribe the right remedy.

1. TCM etiology and pathogenesis

Traditional Chinese medicine emphasizes the unity and integrity of the human body and its relationship with nature. It is believed that sexual activity is a human instinctive activity and orgasm is also a natural reaction of the human body. This kind of "instinctive activity" and "natural reaction" all depend on the mutual coordination and interaction between the functions of the internal organs. Dysfunction of internal organs will lead to sexual dysfunction and lack of orgasm.

1. Kidney yang deficiency. The disease is caused by insufficient congenital endowment, or deficiency of Yang in the body, insufficient kidney Qi; early marriage and multiple births, excessive sexual intercourse, long-term illness and physical weakness, which deplete kidney Qi, lead to deficiency of fatal fire, decreased sexual function, and lack of arousal.

2. Liver qi stagnation. Depression, unfulfilled desires, sudden mental stimulation, or marital discord can lead to liver dysfunction, poor Qi movement, inability to vent and release desires, and frequent delays or lack of orgasm.

3. Disharmony between the heart and kidney. The heart stores the spirit, controls blood vessels, and is the seat of desire; the kidneys store essence, secrete essence, and are the organ of water and fire. If long-term illness damages the yin, excessive sexual intercourse, worry and sadness, depressed emotions that turn into fire, or external heat disease, the heart fire will be hyperactive and unable to flow down to the kidneys, causing the water to become cold below; the kidneys are deficient in essence and cannot be carried up to the heart, causing the fire to burn above. Water and fire are not in harmony, and although intercourse is possible, the "essence" and "spirit" are not secret, and sexual sensation is lacking.

4. Deficiency of spleen and kidney yang. Chronic spleen and kidney disease consumes qi and damages yang, or prolonged diarrhea and dysentery, long-term retention of water evil, resulting in kidney yang deficiency and inability to warm and nourish the spleen earth, or chronic spleen yang deficiency and inability to nourish kidney yang, which damages both spleen and kidney yang, causing a decline in the kidney's reproductive function and orgasm disorders.

2. Western Medicine Etiology and Pathology

1. Spiritual-psychological-social factors

Psychological factors are the main factors causing female orgasm disorders, which come from social and cultural influences, individual factors and the disharmony between husband and wife. According to reports, more than 95% of women with orgasmic disorders have psychological causes.

1. Social and cultural influence. In my country, due to the long-term lack of sex education and the influence of feudal ethics, women restrain themselves in sexual response, and show shyness and passivity in sexual activities, thus affecting the occurrence of orgasm.

2. Individual factors. It varies from person to person. Women who have experienced sexual trauma may experience depression, self-blame, or a desire to seek revenge against men. Some women who grew up in broken families, due to the influence of their parents, may develop a fear or distrust of their husbands after marriage. Some women are physically unwell and are anxious about not being able to meet their husbands' sexual needs. Women who have completed their fertility tasks or have had repeated abortions may experience tension and fear for getting pregnant during sexual activity. All of these can inhibit the orgasm reflex and lead to orgasm disorders.

3. Lack of affection between husband and wife, or women's suspicion, resentment, disgust, or even hostility towards their husbands, which lead to psychological causes of female orgasm disorders. In addition, environmental factors such as crowded housing, uncomfortable beds, noise, work pressure, tense interpersonal relationships, and busy housework can all cause situational female orgasm disorders. At the same time, lack of sexual knowledge and failure to master the rules of sexual life can also cause this disease.