Fourteen manifestations of premature love

Premature love is a problem that occurs to many young people, most of whom are primary and secondary school students. Children of this age are relatively innocent, simple, and precocious. They will develop a liking for and interest in some outstanding people of the opposite sex, which will lead to premature love. So what are the symptoms of children who fall in love early? Let’s take a look together.

1. Children become particularly concerned about clothing and accessories, dressing up and putting on makeup, and are very concerned about their appearance and hairstyle. They sometimes behave abnormally, become shy, or become very excited in front of the opposite sex.

2. Spending money lavishly, often running into financial deficits, asking parents or family members for money, or borrowing money from others.

3. They cannot concentrate in class, lack energy, are preoccupied, or even absent-minded and dazed. Their academic performance shows a downward trend, but some children’s grades in certain subjects will show signs of temporary improvement. However, because premature love consumes time and energy, their overall grades will show a downward trend.

4. Suddenly becoming talkative or silent, unable to go to bed on time, avoiding group activities, and unwilling to contact others.

5. The frequency of making phone calls, chatting on QQ and WeChat will increase significantly, and abnormal outings will increase significantly.

6. Behaving in a secretive manner, making phone calls, chatting on QQ and WeChat behind the backs of family members, making it seem as if they are doing "underground work."

7. Not returning home or going to school on time, and easily forgetting or being late for appointments with family members or teachers.

8. Academic performance has obviously declined and the student cannot concentrate in class.

9. A child who was originally lively and active suddenly becomes less talkative and rarely wants to communicate with his parents.

10. Can't stay at home, find all kinds of excuses to go out, like to go to parks, KTV and other places, and sometimes lie.

11. Thoughts and emotions fluctuate greatly. Sometimes you become excited, and sometimes you become depressed, irritable, and have no patience to do things.

12. Sudden interest in literature, movies, and novels with love as the theme

13. Suddenly you like to talk to people about things between the sexes.

14. Write letters or diaries without telling parents or relatives, pay attention to the ambiguous style of the letter paper, and pay special attention to hiding the letters.