Reflecting on a person’s psychology and personality from their WeChat status

There are all kinds of people in WeChat Moments who post status and make comments every day. How can we tell at a glance the personality and mentality of the person on the other end of the phone through these "statuses"? There are all kinds of people in WeChat Moments who post statuses and make comments every day. How can you tell the personality and mentality of the person on the other end of the phone through these "statuses"? Read this article quickly and compare them one by one!

Show-off type has narcissistic tendencies

“I’m so tired. After sitting on the train for more than ten hours, I finally have afternoon tea at XX. Who wants to come?”... Some people enjoy playing WeChat to their heart’s content. From morning to night, almost all of their life trajectories can be found on WeChat.

Comment: The fast-paced and high-pressure life in modern society makes many people feel like they are drowning in the crowd, and everyone is searching for "their own existence" throughout their life, eager to gain affirmation and recognition from others. WeChat is a simple and quick way to record, and you can gain self-satisfaction from the recognition of others. This can be better reflected in the fact that people like to share their happy moments and beautiful photos. Of course, people who send dozens or even hundreds of messages a day may have more serious narcissistic tendencies.

Expanded type desires spiritual food

Xiaolin is a fan of literature and animation, and these two areas are the information she pays most attention to on WeChat. She often posts fresh and hot comments and shares other people's unique perspectives. Her fans are growing, which makes her feel that her life is more fulfilling.

Comment: Motivation is the driving force behind behavior. People all want to know things they "don't know". In an era of information explosion, constantly acquiring information, having more say in the communication process and not being left out, thereby helping to expand their own social circle, is an interpersonal and spiritual need.

Decompression type to find oneself

Xiaogui has been away from her hometown to make a living. Since she got WeChat, she has been inseparable from it. She often vents her dissatisfaction and shares happy things on it. She said: "This is a secret way to fully reveal the real self."

Comment: In real life, pressure is everywhere. Some people may not have more ways to share their inner thoughts with others, but WeChat just makes up for this deficiency. Publishing positive information and venting dissatisfaction with life are both good ways for people to cope with stress, because writing it down is a stress-relieving activity in itself.

Voyeurism

Wenwen signed up for WeChat, but apart from forwarding messages, she almost never posts original messages. Her excuse is: "If you show off your happiness, you will die quickly!" However, the first thing she does before going to bed and when she wakes up in the morning is to check WeChat. She thinks: "It's interesting to watch others live a fulfilling life every day."

Comment: People all have the need to socialize. When everyone is using WeChat and Weibo, the herd mentality makes people follow the trend and avoid falling behind. Psychoanalyst Freud believed that people are born with curiosity, and it is human nature to pry into other people's privacy, and checking Weibo and WeChat is a good way to do this. Of course, since most of the events and pictures people post are joyful, the “onlookers” may feel envious, jealous, or even hateful, feeling that they are inferior to others in every way, which may disturb their hearts.