7 Desires of Men that Wives Should Know

1. Recognition

Men want to conquer the whole world, so what men need most is recognition and approval. Even though what he does may be meaningless, don't hit the man. A blow will hurt a man's self-esteem and make him feel lonely and helpless. Smart women should learn to appreciate men. Men cannot conquer the entire world, but they hope to conquer their women's world.

When the Creator created human beings, he gave men and women different personalities and thinking. Only then will they be attracted to each other, so women should recognize men. It's nature, not stupidity. Satisfy men's inflated hypocrisy.

2. Warmth

Men are very fragile creatures. Most of the time, what they need is a feeling of warmth, not just physical warmth, but more of spiritual warmth. When they are tired and exhausted, they will hide in a corner like a lazy cat to bask in the warm sun and keep warm. Don't just think that men are strong. In fact, men need warmth, care and sweet words more than women.

3. Considerate

Men like watching movies, football, and NBA because men’s emotional world is straightforward, not like spider silk, nor tangled like silk. When a man is pursuing a woman he likes, he can give everything. This is the desire of man's nature: to conquer. Don't think that men will always be so good to you. Men can also get tired and annoyed. Men also need consideration and understanding.

4. Life

No matter how accomplished or successful a man is. One thing is the same: three meals a day, food is always in the mouth and tea is always in the hand. Men are not air, they need to live. No matter what he is thinking or doing, one thing is certain: he needs to eat. You can only survive if you fill your stomach.

Someone once said: To capture a man's heart, you must first capture his stomach. Fill his stomach first. Even if a man is heartless, he may miss your cooking skills and the meals you make. Give a man normal living conditions and he will feel comforted.

5. Forgiveness

No one is perfect, and men make mistakes too. Men are impulsive animals, so they often make mistakes. When dealing with a man’s mistakes, a woman should be more tolerant like a mother, educate and guide him. It will be a great help for him to realize his mistakes and improve. Instead of pushing men into the abyss, letting them go further and further and unable to extricate themselves.

Men are kites and women are strings. Don’t let the kite’s string break and lose its way home. Being tolerant to men also means being tolerant to yourself and to the world.

6. Understanding

Don't force a man to go shopping with a woman. This is a fatal mistake women often make. Men are not interested in those colorful accessories. Going shopping with a woman is a torture, not a pleasure. When a man accompanies a woman shopping, he feels miserable but cannot express it. Understand men. Don’t think that a man accompanying you shopping is a sign of love. That’s because you can’t afford to offend him.

Everyone will suffer from aesthetic fatigue, and items chosen by men themselves will no longer feel fresh. A smart woman goes shopping by herself, changes her clothes, hairstyle, and image to make the man's eyes light up. Understanding men while giving yourself a lot of space, why not do it?

7. Confidante

Men are looking for a confidante all their lives, because men's hearts are easily lonely and isolated, and they will not be easily satisfied. Therefore, men hope to communicate, hope that someone will know their status and their difficulties, to gain sympathy, warmth, sweet words, freshness, and the feeling of being loved. Even if it is like a moth flying into a flame, we must pursue the magnificence of the moment.