7-13 minutes is the best time for perfect sex!

What is the perfect duration for sex? Research has given the answer: 7-13 minutes. This is the standard time. Too short or too long is not good.

This is the first large-scale study to look at the duration of sex. Researchers randomly surveyed thousands of people and found that actual sex (starting from the contact of sexual organs) is most suitable for 7-13 minutes.

Most of the respondents, especially men, said that if actual sex lasts more than 13 minutes, they will feel more tired and it will be more difficult to recover their strength; while if it is less than 7 minutes, they will feel that it is not enough.

Allegedly, this study is intended to make many people realize that the saying that "perfect sex takes longer and longer" is nonsense.

Research leader Eric Cote explained that people always have some unrealistic "assumptions" about sex.

Deliberately "delaying time" is harmful

Some people believe that men should have a thick penis, a firm erection, and be able to spend the whole night in love without getting tired. This is clearly a wishful 'daydream'. However, many people take it for granted and even use it as a criterion for measuring sexual ability.

The result is that people without any problems also start to worry about their sexual performance, which may induce a series of sexual dysfunctions over time.

When men deliberately delay, their original intention is nothing more than to hope that women can also get longer-lasting pleasure and ensure that she can reach the wonderful climax. In fact, men should understand that there are many ways to satisfy women, such as increasing, changing, and enriching the content of foreplay, and whetting her appetite before actual love, which is more effective than monotonous mechanical movements.

In addition, men should know more about the sensitive areas of their partners and provide gentle and appropriate stimulation, which can better arouse women's desire and allow them to take more initiative in sex.

Women themselves should also communicate more with their partners and exchange ideas about problems that arise in their sex lives, to let their partners know that time is not an important factor in determining the quality of sex. Sexual life is a matter between two people. Only when both parties truly pay attention to and listen to each other's needs will it undergo a qualitative change.