What is the real reason for couples' fear of sex?

Normal sex life can not only enhance the affection between couples, but also help relieve various pressures in life and work. But in real life, many couples cannot enjoy sex well. One of the spouses has fear or disgust towards sex, which seriously affects their married life and even leads to family breakups due to this reason. Today I will introduce to you the real reasons that cause couples’ fear of sex at home, hoping that it will be helpful to patients at this stage.

Sexual life is the most important thing for couples to do well, but some couples can't do it well. It's not that they don't want to do it, but because they are afraid of sex. Why are couples afraid of sex? What are the reasons for couples' fear of sex?

1. Distracted for no reason

Everything requires concentration and seriousness, and the same is true for sex between couples. However, many people will suddenly get distracted during sex. This type of person should be the unconfident type. They are always afraid that they will not do well or achieve the results their partner wants. The better they do, the more afraid they are. This requires talking to their partner about sexual fantasies on a daily basis and strengthening communication.

2. Not being able to orgasm, or not orgasming quickly enough

In many couples, one party regards sexual orgasm as the criterion for the quality of their married life. This is a very wrong idea, because orgasm does not occur every time, and sexual orgasm is not a one-person thing. It requires the joint efforts of both parties, but it is still something that can be encountered but not sought after.

3. One party is "too fast"

This problem mainly lies with men, because women are slow to warm up, so men always finish before women are in the mood. Then, after their wives blame them, will they be terrified, because the more they want to do well, the worse they will do.

4. Erection disappears

Men regard sexual ability as their proudest thing, and sexual ability largely reflects a man's charm. Therefore, men are afraid that they are not good in that aspect, and if there are changes in their erection, men will become extremely panic. This panic will directly lead to men not daring to have sex.

Summary:

Sexual intercourse between husband and wife is a matter for two people. It is not good if one person has physical or mental problems, and it is definitely not a unilateral problem of one person. Therefore, the couple must face and solve the problem together so that they can have a happy sex life.