5 ways to cut off your husband's "confidante"

Men like to be surrounded by all kinds of women. Although having friends of the opposite sex is a normal social need, some "close female friends" often exude an ambiguous atmosphere towards their husbands, making their wives feel uneasy. So how should a wife respond to different types of "confidantes"?

1. Beauty type: Pretending to be petite

This type of woman is like Lin Daiyu in Cao Xueqin's works, or the heroine in Qiong Yao's dramas. She is weak and needs to find someone to rely on. If your husband is that kind of person who is kind to women, then you should pay special attention.

Strategy: Be jealous when you should be jealous

Sometimes blindly tolerating cannot solve the problem. When facing such a woman, the wife should express her dissatisfaction and anger loudly, tell her husband directly that she minds a lot, and let him know your bottom line of tolerance. If that beauty still keeps looking for your husband, you might as well find an opportunity to write down her number and tell her openly that the husband is yours and he is not obliged to comply with anyone's requests.

2. Beauty type: the type that only wants the world to be in chaos

There is a type of woman who likes to see men being bewitched by them. They also like to say some cheesy love words to men, and even make some ambiguous phone calls, so that men can enjoy this kind of temptation and fun. When you protest, he will think you are making a big deal out of nothing.

Countermeasure: Put down your pride and fight

This kind of woman is very destructive. Although she may not take relationships seriously, she will definitely affect your family life. So wives might as well humble themselves and compete with her, for example, occasionally dress fashionably and openly to divert your husband's attention to yourself.

3. Beauty type: buddy type

Maybe she is your husband's childhood sweetheart, or maybe she is his good friend from school days. This kind of woman may have never been in love, or may not have much self-awareness about emotional matters. She always wants to call your husband out to spend time together, forgetting that her good friend is already a family man.

Solution: Tell the other person you don’t have time

When facing such a woman, the wife should try her best to arrange something for her husband to do so that he can’t get away and learn to say “I don’t have time” to her. If possible, you can introduce her to a few people so that your husband doesn't have to accompany her all the time.

4. Beauty type: Literary

This type of woman should be someone with a strong literary and artistic complex. As long as a man opens up to her, she will regard him as her "confidant". She always likes to have tea with him, talk about her ideals in life, and even send each other some lyrical text messages.

Countermeasure: Actively talk and deal with it coldly

For this kind of woman, it is best for the wife to take the initiative to find her husband and talk to him. Of course, don't show your jealousy. Just tell him that his recent behavior has caused a lot of bad comments from everyone, and let him deal with it himself.

5. Beauty type: Internet chat type

In this Internet age, most men have a few female netizens. We usually chat online, and sometimes even meet in person to kill time. The content of the chat may also involve some ambiguous words, but your husband thinks it is just a chat and he has not done anything out of line.

Countermeasure: No mercy

When facing this kind of woman, you must never be merciful. As a wife, you can tamper with your own computer and reinstall the system intentionally or unintentionally to cause his contact information to be lost. If he likes to flirt online, you might as well transform yourself into a versatile beauty on the other end of the Internet and persuade him in another way.