No desire to have sex after having a baby

Sexual life is a catalyst for sweetness in married life and a guarantee for harmonious family life. But for female friends who have just given birth, sex life also brings them certain distress. Many people may suffer from postpartum depression after giving birth, or have minor problems with their bodies after giving birth, which may lead to them not wanting to have sex after giving birth. Faced with such a situation, what can we do to solve it?

1. Postpartum sexual indifference

Postpartum sexual apathy is one of the common sexual dysfunctions in women. After experiencing a long pregnancy and severe pain during childbirth, many new mothers fall into the embarrassment of sexual apathy after childbirth.

2. What are the reasons for women's postpartum sexual indifference?

1. Starting sexual life too early after childbirth: Women will experience changes in their whole body and reproductive system after childbirth, which will have a certain inhibitory effect on sexual desire. Generally, it will take two months after childbirth for various organs to return to normal, and only then can sexual life begin. If sexual intercourse begins too early after childbirth, it can easily lead to sexual aversion in the wife, thus inducing sexual frigidity.

2. Overwork: After giving birth, women often focus their energy on their children and have little interest in sex itself. If the husband stands aside and does not show any understanding, concern or help towards the children and housework, and lets his wife do all the work alone, it will lead to his wife being overworked and prone to sexual indifference.

3. Reproductive system diseases: Some women are left with scars due to tearing of the vulva and vagina during childbirth, which reduces the sexual sensitivity of the vulva or causes pain due to vaginal narrowing; some experience discomfort due to postpartum complications of endometriosis or chronic pelvic inflammatory disease; and some women suffer from vaginal diseases, which can easily lead to postpartum sexual apathy.

4. Improper contraceptive measures: Some women do not take effective contraceptive measures after giving birth. When having sex, they are always worried about getting pregnant. In addition, some couples use the interruption method for contraception, interrupting each time when the "sexual" interest is strong and the wife is close to orgasm. Over time, this may lead to sexual apathy.

3. How to avoid

Don't indulge in your love for your child after giving birth. You should set aside some time every day to separate from your children so that your husband and family can take care of them, and try to spend more time alone with your husband. Pay attention to proper diet and nutrition, get enough sleep and rest, and maintain a good mood. Adjustment: On the one hand, both parties should pay attention to the problem of sexual indifference and analyze it to find the cause; on the other hand, both parties should reach a consensus and work hard to improve it, especially both parties should understand and actively cooperate.