Eight Reasons Not to Say "I Love You" Too Soon

Now you are head over heels for that girl you met last week. No matter how romantic the date is, no matter how friendly you are, and you are ready to confess your love, you can't wait to say those three words - now is not the time. While you may be totally into it, she may need some time to figure out where your relationship is headed. There is a time for everything, and before this, you can't say "I love you" to her. 8 reasons why you shouldn't rush to say "I love you".

1. Kill the excitement

Believe us, the best stage of a relationship is in the early stages, when both of you are a mystery to each other. The knees bent just to look at her, the goose bumps every time she touched you, the late night talks - all of that, may be gone forever. Saying "I love you" breaks all of this.

2. Your hunger is exposed

It makes you look like a possessive, obsessive, needy idiot who just wants a girlfriend in his life. If you plan on spending your future with her, she'd better be attracted to your personality. Don't meet people who are unreliable and desperate.

3. Blurring the real world

Obsession and love cannot be confused, only time can distinguish the two. Admitting your so-called love for her, you force yourself to believe that you are really in love with her. Even though your feelings may fade away after a while, you will force yourself to believe that she is truly the only one for you. Not only that, girls also face tremendous pressure. Not rushing to say those three words would have prevented this situation.

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4. Hurting someone’s feelings

Like men, many women are commitment-phobic. And you may be ready to take risks without thinking it through, which may put the girl in a dilemma. You know how a woman ends when she's unsure of her feelings. If you let some time pass, you might end up losing the person who was meant for you.

5. You will be seen as childish

Even if you are sure of your feelings, you should wait for the right time to express your feelings. It is not difficult for a man to fall in love with someone in a short period of time. But, my friend, most women are watching your every move. If you rush to say "I love you," you will be seen as vain and childish. This completely ruins your chances of success. Do you want this result?

6. Seeing is not always believing

To love someone, you must understand him thoroughly. You have been trying very hard to be humble to her, and she has been doing the same to you. This might not be the real her. You have to take the time to understand the true side of their lives outside of work.

7. It causes the relationship to deteriorate

Confessing your love can make a girl believe that she loves you too. Once you confess your feelings to each other, it may be difficult to undo what you have done. A half-baked relationship, where two people are still unclear about how they feel about each other, committing to each other for life is the worst approach. It will only cause pain to both parties.

8. Too many people to do everything

Once things become awkward with each other, there's little you can do to mend the relationship with your girlfriend. Even though she may still love you in the near future, rushing into commitment will only ruin your chances. She may find it hard to accept your so-called "love" and decide to leave.