Five strategies to help you save your love crisis

1. Be tolerant of everything

Seeing these words, many female friends may sneer at them. I thought, why should women endure it? Yes, sometimes it is clearly not your fault, but you just need to endure it to protect yourself. Isn’t this necessary for many things in reality? This is also something that Confucianism, which we Chinese have always respected, has given us. But to be honest, sometimes we really shouldn't endure it, but there is no way around it, this is a reality. Therefore, if female friends want to continue to protect their love after encountering a love rival. If you want to save your love, you must be patient. The reason is very simple. The reason why your lover is attracted to your rival is definitely because your rival is superior to you. At this time, in your lover's heart, the score given to your rival is already higher than the score given to you. If you make a fuss, you will only lose points, and it will also easily arouse a man's desire to protect vulnerable women. So, just bear with it. Unless you really want to give yourself a marriage.

2. Let your lover feel your love

Maybe time will pass and your charm will no longer remain, but my love for you will never fade. I know a fat sister. It’s not that I’m being unkind, it’s just the truth. This sister’s appearance is absolutely not to be praised. However, his handsome and successful lover was attracted to her and couldn't stop. The reason is love. Her selfless and meticulous love for her lover filled his heart with happiness and gratitude. It should be said that most people are emotional, so we should treat others with kindness and empathy. In love, no one is a fool, so don't expect that you don't love someone but he loves you very much.

3. Let your lover see through the intentions of your rival

Most love rivals are driven by interests, especially under the current pressure. Therefore, you must seize the opportunity to let your lover know this, and let him know that it is not his charm that attracts beautiful women, but the women who seduce men for his money and status are just playing around. If you were an ordinary person, they would ignore you. Your husband should understand that there is no love or even affection between him and these people; it is simply an exchange of interests. At least if the lover realizes this, he will not invest so much in another woman.

4. Tolerance never goes out of style

The tolerance mentioned here is definitely not tolerance without principles or tolerance without limits. It is true that tolerance has its limits. But please remember, female friends, tolerance, as a magic weapon, will never go out of date. Tolerance is absolutely of great significance in a specific time, specific occasion and specific situation. This is what it means to use good steel on the blade. When necessary, being tolerant can not only give yourself a way out of the tense situation, but also allow your lover to reflect on his or her mistakes in a grateful mood.

5. Your lover and you will always share the same interests.

This is the most core point and also the most insightful point. This is a truth that both husband and wife must understand. The community of interests mentioned here is not just about money. The two of you are in this together in every aspect of life. Many female friends do not realize this and take the initiative to undermine men. This will lead to only one result, which is that both sides suffer. Unless you want to separate from him and find another good husband, otherwise, the two of you are grasshoppers tied together. It is absolutely a case of everyone prospering together and suffering together.