This is the most lasting way to get married

In a survey of 1,500 couples in the United States, 55% of the couples got married directly after falling in love at first sight. What is even more shocking is the divorce rate: only 20% for men, while it is below 10% for women.

1. The other person’s overall temperament.

There is an old saying that goes 'You can't judge a book by its cover, and you can't measure the depth of the sea', but the way most people dress can fully reflect the nature of their work, and even their attitude towards life and personality. For this reason, there is the love that says, "Just because I saw you once in the crowd, I can never forget your face." This kind of love is beautiful, but of course it also carries the utilitarianism of love itself. Because to fall in love at first sight, one must have seen a good match in the other person. In fact, I have asked many people: What are your criteria for choosing a partner? Many people answered me: It depends on whether you are attracted to each other. The seemingly random mate selection criteria actually hide the high standard of "better to be single than to settle for the wrong person". Because most people meet love while waiting, love at first sight often shows a person's true side, unlike blind dates, where people dress up for an appointment and the latter seem a bit fake.

2. The quality of the other person’s life.

It is obviously not a very realistic thing to ask people who do hard labor every day to wear long skirts or suits to go to work. Moreover, a person's skin color and the smoothness of his hands can reflect the quality of his life. It is inevitable that a delicate girl would find it difficult to fall in love at first sight with a man with shabby clothes and rough hands in a crowd. For this reason, many people are experts in palmistry and face reading. For this reason, for those who are confused in love, I can tell you solemnly that the person of the opposite sex who makes you want to turn back on the street is the most real standard for choosing a partner in your mind. Therefore, love at first sight is often a love that is not against one's will and is not justified. If you happen to meet someone of the opposite sex in the crowd and your eyes meet and you smile at them, please boldly ask for their contact information. Don't miss the right love because of shyness.

3. The other person’s appearance.

The most direct way to fall in love at first sight is to look at the other person's appearance. Just like many people now like to make friends online, in fact, what really attracts each other online is not the exchanging of photos, but the attraction between words. If there is an urge to meet in person, it can only be said that there is a resonance in ideas. The moment you meet, you will have two different real feelings in your heart: either loss or joy. If you feel disappointed after meeting each other, please do not force yourself to meet again, because the love that comes from both sides will usually turn into marriage. Only when you are happy after meeting each other can it develop into a happy marriage. There is a famous saying in the world of love: Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. For this reason, there are many beautiful or handsome people, but the key is whether the other person is your type, which is particularly important. For this reason, the first meeting and the subsequent feelings are worth cherishing.

4. Are you attracted to the other person?

When you first meet someone, you examine the other person's overall temperament, judge the quality of their life, and appreciate their appearance. Those who should be ignored will naturally be ignored, and those who should be attracted will naturally be attracted. In fact, the most important point is confession. Not everyone has the courage to confess their love. Therefore, when people lament why they cannot meet true love when there are so many men and women in the world, they should actually complain why they missed the opportunity to confess their love when the person they like appeared. In other words, many good marriages in the world are missed because of shyness. Of course, those men and women who dare to express their affection for each other when they first meet will definitely feel that love is a magical thing when they recall the past after successfully holding hands. Because love at first sight is actually examining the other person's true self without any disguise, and both parties feel that they are reliable and are willing to hold hands together. I dare to ask, can this kind of love not be strong?