Women need to change a lot so men won't let them change

Core Tip: What men appreciate most about a woman is her flexibility. At work, serious women are the most beautiful; when two people are alone, gentle women are the most beautiful; in a gathering with male friends, women who know how to act coquettishly are the most enviable.

1. Reserve time and space for ventilation

When we swim in the water, we also need to get out of the water from time to time to breathe. The same is true when getting along and living with another person. Don't let a man stay in the same space and movement route all the time. After a long time, he will want to rush out and breathe the free air.

So, when a man is playing with his golfing friends outside for too long, don't keep calling him to urge him. Just pretend that you have forgotten about this matter and live your life well, whether you are going out to hang out with sisters or sitting in a cafe, but don't focus all your attention on the man for 24 hours, so that you can both go to other places to get some fresh air.

When the "free time" is over, you will return to your regular daily life, but at this time, because you maintain contact with the outside world, you will have more topics to talk about and more interactions, making every day of your relationship as fresh and fun as the first day.

2. Adjust your high expectations

Sometimes, before falling in love, everyone has certain fantasies about the prince and love in their hearts. When the relationship begins, the gap between reality makes us a little disappointed. But this is not the man's fault, it's because of your high expectations. So as time goes by, women must learn to adjust their expectations of their partners based on reasonable situations. Don't give men test papers in various subjects and calculate how many points they get every day.

3. Change space and switch roles

What men admire most about a woman is her flexibility.

At work, serious women are the most beautiful; when two people are alone, gentle women are the most beautiful; in a gathering with male friends, women who know how to act coquettishly are the most enviable; in family gatherings during the New Year, virtuous women are the most beautiful; in the private boudoir, women who are looming are the sexiest.