Chinese men and women have three major dissatisfactions with sex

“A blessing after a long drought, meeting an old friend in a foreign land, the wedding night, and being named on the list of successful candidates.” Among the four great happy events in life summarized by the ancient Chinese, “the wedding night” accounts for one of them. This shows the importance of “sexual happiness”. However, people's sexual satisfaction in China and even in the Asia-Pacific region is not satisfactory.

Both men and women want to have more sex

In the survey, 84% of men and 69% of women wanted to increase the frequency of sexual life. More than half of the respondents said that they were dissatisfied with their current sex life, mainly due to the low frequency and poor quality of sex. Professor Jiang Hui, the incoming chairman of the Andrology Branch of the Chinese Medical Association, pointed out that it is a progress for modern people to dare to express their desire for sex life, and more sex can indeed contribute to the harmony between couples.

90% of Chinese women want to prolong sex time

Throughout the Asia-Pacific region, the average number of sexual activities per month for Chinese couples or partners is not low, at 9 times, far exceeding that of Japan, South Korea and other places. However, 96% of women and 80% of men want to prolong the duration of each sexual intercourse. Dr. Chris McMahon, president of the International Society of Sexual Medicine, believes that prolonging sexual intercourse time includes the entire process of foreplay, erection and afterplay.

80% of men are anxious about premature ejaculation

Among men’s sexual anxiety, 84% is related to premature ejaculation. Jiang Hui said that there are three criteria for premature ejaculation: short ejaculation latency period, generally considered to be 5.4 minutes as the average; lack of control over sexual life; and dissatisfaction with the partner. Dr. McMahon said that Chinese people tend to believe that premature ejaculation is a psychological problem. In fact, only 10% to 20% of premature ejaculation is psychological, and more is related to the nervous system. This is why psychological treatment alone is difficult to be effective. Therefore, if premature ejaculation occurs, you should seek medical attention and take medication in a timely manner.

Nine out of ten people believe that sex is essential for family happiness. A survey conducted in China shows that 90% of people believe that sex life plays a very important role in family happiness. Jiang Hui said that a good quality of sex life, a long duration, strong enough sex, and happiness for both husband and wife are the ideal sex life we ​​are pursuing.