Men love these three people, so don't compete with them for favor

When competing for favor, you have to be clear about the target. There are some people you cannot compete with because you are not on the same level as them; there is some people you don’t need to compete with because they pose no threat to you at all. Only stupid women are always afraid of everything, while smart women know that sometimes they have to fight, and sometimes they should be open-minded and tolerant. This will improve your image in the eyes of men and will also win you some necessary chips when you need to fight.

The first woman is, of course, your mother-in-law.

I wonder how many brainless women are still chasing men and asking "If your mother and I fell into the river at the same time, who would you save first?" Do you dare to accept a man who doesn't save his elderly mother who raised him, but saves his man first?

This woman has lived with the man you love since the moment he was born. No, from the moment before he was born. Aren't you asking for trouble by being mean to her and competing for her favor?

What's more, filial piety is the most important virtue. Men will definitely be filial to their mothers. Even if it is not out of love, then out of responsibility and morality, they will not want to do anything unfilial and make themselves feel guilty and regretful.

You chatter all day long to compete for favor with your mother-in-law, gossip about everything, and argue why you treat her better than me, and why you give in to her and not me in this matter. This will make the man feel that not only are you unfilial, but you are also preventing him from being filial.

The second one is his sister

Because men always have a complex towards their sisters. Just as all women hope to have a brother who is both loving and protective, all men hope to have a sister who is both obedient and beautiful. The title of brother has a special appeal to men, and they must spare no effort to protect this identity.

A brother should be a hero, a superman who can solve all problems, a family member who will answer no matter what his sister says. As an older brother, you should often ruffle your sister's hair, bring her cute toys, help her with her homework, or act as her parent and attend parent-teacher conferences.

Therefore, the honorary title of brother needs to be defended by men. If you compete for favor with a man's sister, you are competing for favor with this title, which is equivalent to going against the image that the man has portrayed of you. This is absolutely asking for trouble.

The last woman you need to avoid is his idol

Many men have their own idols, be it the youthful and beautiful Vivian Chow, the charming and alluring Fan Bingbing, the delicate and shy Lin Chi-ling, or the graceful and elegant Maggie Cheung.

Some men may be a little crazy. Their computers are filled with photos of their idols. They mention their idols' names all the time. In their spare time, they often watch movies about her or listen to her songs. They may even try every means to meet their idols.

But you don't have to worry. Men are not like women. They usually make a clear distinction between reality and non-reality. Idols are just idols to them. At most, they will have sexual fantasies about them, but they will never think about doing anything with their idols.

On the other hand, if you are constantly jealous of a certain female star and try to stop him from being a fan, he will think you are unreasonable, unable to distinguish between reality and non-reality, and even interfere with his hobbies.