Men are best at telling eight kinds of lies that women should never take seriously

Men will use their eloquence to deceive women. Although women still like to enjoy men's sweet words, it is worth noting that women should not take some of men's lies seriously! The following editor will reveal the secrets of love for you, and see which lies of men should never be believed.

1. I don’t care about your appearance, I care about your heart

It is said that men are responsible for making money to support the family, while women are responsible for being beautiful.

It would be foolish for a woman to believe what a man says. There is no man who will not be attracted by a woman's appearance. The reason why he says this is just to comfort you. As a woman, once you neglect to dress yourself, you will push men further and further away.

2. It doesn’t matter whether you are pure or not. I don’t have mysophobia.

Men always say this, but Chinese tradition constrains men to value women's chastity. Have you ever seen a man willing to marry a promiscuous woman? The reason they say this is because they think you will definitely be their first, and once they find out you are not, their disappointment will be clear on their faces.

3. It doesn’t matter if you are fat or thin, as long as you are healthy

This is directed at the fact that some girls nowadays spend huge amounts of money on diet pills, plastic surgery, face-slimming injections, etc. in order to be beautiful and stay slim. When a man says this, he is probably just feeling sorry for the money or afraid that something unexpected will happen to you and you will suffer a greater loss, not that he doesn't want you to be beautiful and slim.

Of course, women’s pursuit of beauty must be moderate and natural, otherwise they will be punished by God.

4. Buy whatever you want, don’t feel bad about spending money, as long as you are happy, I earn money for you or who else I earn money for if not for you.

When a man says this, it is either that the woman is too frugal or he is trying to make her happy. What he means is that you should spend what you should spend and don't be too frugal or deduct money from yourself. It does not mean that you can spend his money lavishly, unless the money is not earned by him or obtained through legitimate means, then he will not feel sorry for you and let you squander it.

As a woman, you must understand the hard work and difficulty of men in earning money. There is a saying that goes, if you are not poor, you are poor even if you cannot make plans!

5. You don’t have to work, I’ll support you

If he is on the rich list, then you can still believe what he said, but he only earns a few thousand yuan a month, which is just enough to feed his family, and he actually made such a promise to you shamelessly. Women should not believe it easily. If you follow him, hard times are ahead!

If you are not looking for a rich man, then you should just work hard, because people with money don't care about anything, but people without money care about everything.

If a woman does not go to work and works hard at home, people will think she is just eating for free. This is what I often say, only when a woman is financially independent can she be independent in personality and gain the respect of others.

6. I will regard your parents as my parents

If you invite your parents to stay with you for ten days or half a month, or give your monthly salary to them, then try it out. After all, they are separated by a layer of belly. It's like can you treat his parents as your parents? Of course not. Then what qualifications do you have to ask him to do the same?

7. I don’t mind you having friends of the opposite sex

When a man says this, it is very likely that he does not really love you and is treating you as a backup. At least he has no intention of marrying you, or he is lying, otherwise he will definitely mind. There is a saying: Don't let your girlfriend have a blue friend, because if she is blue, you will be cuckolded; don't let your boyfriend have a red friend, because if he is red, the two of you will break up.

8. It’s okay if you don’t know how to wash clothes or cook. I will do it in the future.

Today’s people born in the 80s and 90s are all little princesses at home, so most of them don’t know how to wash clothes, cook, or do housework. If it’s before marriage, they will tolerate it because they haven’t won you yet. Once you are married, you will still be like a guest. Once, twice... it’s okay.

Over time, things are no longer the same as they were at the beginning, and your conflicts or wars begin from this. You ask him to do laundry, cooking, and housework? He will ask, "Why did I marry a wife?"

Because in the minds of most men in China, marrying a wife means she will do the laundry, cook and serve the man. Of course, if you marry a rich man, you don't have to do that because there is a nanny to do it.