The most hurtful thing for women after sex

In life, we often hear many women complain that their husbands fall asleep immediately after sex, completely ignoring the emotional and physical needs of their wives. So why do men behave so selfishly in their sex lives?

In fact, this is a misunderstanding

Falling asleep immediately after sex is not just a common phenomenon among individual men. In addition to bringing men exhilarating pleasure, sex also gives them a feeling of exhaustion like running a 10,000-meter marathon. To put it bluntly, it's "tired." You should know that during sexual intercourse, the human body's sympathetic nerves are in a highly tense state, and various hormones, especially sex hormones, are secreted vigorously. At this time, not only are the sexual organs in a highly congested state, but many tissues of the body are also involved in this special physiological process from the sexual excitement period to the orgasm period, such as: increased heart rate, increased blood pressure, deeper and faster breathing, dilation of skin blood vessels throughout the body, increased sweating, etc. Therefore, during this process, the body's energy consumption increases significantly, metabolism is enhanced, and the reflex function of the cerebrospinal cord that controls the discharge of semen also changes from tension to relaxation after ejaculation. Therefore, men generally feel tired after having sex.

Melanocortin levels increase during penile erection

Melanocortin is a substance secreted by brain tissue. Under normal circumstances, its secretion peaks before falling asleep at night. It mainly regulates the body's sleep, makes people feel sleepy and promotes sleep. During sex, the increase in melanocortin, which should only appear when falling asleep at night, occurs ahead of time, which is equivalent to men taking "sleeping pills" at the beginning of sexual life. Coupled with a certain amount of physical exertion, it is not surprising that men fall asleep after sex. Obviously, this is not something that men can control.

In addition, increased social pressure on men is also one of the main reasons. With the continuous development of the economy, people's living standards are constantly improving and the pace of life is getting faster and faster. For the sake of family, career, wife and children, and a good living space, men give up everything they have. They have to face various social engagements during the day. Some men work like "workaholics" and are exhausted physically and mentally when they get home at night. It is true that "only those who have never been a man know the hardship of being a man." It has become the voice of the times that men need more care and love.

Of course, there are big differences between men and women in their sexual response cycles, and men should caress their partners appropriately after sex.