Why do men think that "domestic flowers are not as fragrant as wild flowers"?

People often say that marriages cannot withstand the seven-year itch. For men and women in a relationship, they must have been together at first because there was something attractive about each other. However, as time goes by, each other's shortcomings begin to show, and a series of factors in real life cause their values ​​to begin to diverge. So, what do men think in marriage? Let's take a look at men's psychology from the Love Guide and discuss how to manage marriage in the most sensible way!

Men's Psychology

I believe many people remember the song "Don't Pick the Wild Flowers on the Roadside" sung by Teresa Teng. What do the "wild flowers" in the song refer to? Without saying it explicitly, everyone should know that these "wild flowers" refer to the lovers with whom men cheat after marriage.

Therefore, this song still expresses the many frustrations of women after marriage. Especially the line "Remember my feelings, remember my love, remember that I am waiting for you every day", which expresses the bitterness of being a "family flower".

Although this is just a lyrical song, it can at least illustrate one point: it is easy to fall in love but difficult to stay together! It is so difficult to maintain a perfect and happy marriage. So, what are the reasons why domestic flowers are not as fragrant as wild flowers in men's eyes?

First, the wife's competitive mentality "pushes" the man out of the house

In life, we always see some women who will not miss any opportunity to slander their husbands as long as their men are not as promising as other men.

She is in a bad mood towards her husband all day long, and finds fault with his every word and action, no matter in front of others or behind their backs, making the man lose face.

Just think about it, men all want to save face, so which man can tolerate a woman's unscrupulous abuse for a long time? Sometimes they will not refute women's words and actions, but they will accumulate deeply in their minds, and this resentment will explode one day.

On the surface, it seems that the man is unfaithful.

In fact, the man was unknowingly "pushed" out of the house by the "house flower" and threw himself into the arms of the "wild flower" with a wounded heart.

Second, the man’s hobbies are not appreciated by his wife.

There is such a man around me who loves calligraphy and painting. He is good at Chinese painting and is highly appreciated by his peers. He has been married for more than 20 years. After work, he always likes to paint at home, but his wife always says that he is not doing his job properly.

Due to limited conditions at home and the lack of a dedicated studio, I could only practice painting on the dining table in the living room after dinner.

Even so, sometimes his wife refused to even give up the table for him.

However, he had a female colleague who admired his calligraphy and painting and often invited him to her home to learn from her and ask him to leave his "ink works". Over time, even the people stayed with the "wild flowers".

Third, men who cannot get the care of their wives look for confidants outside

In today's life, there is a lot of pressure, but men's emotions are not cared for by their wives. Some women in marriage only know how to ask for things, and they will lose their temper when they are slightly dissatisfied. Yes, men tolerate all of this because they love you, but such tolerance will also have a limit. Until he finds that he is also tired, he may look for another emotional sustenance.

For example, sometimes when a husband says to his wife at home: "Pour me a glass of water" or "Get me some clothes", many wives will say: "You are the master, and you treat me like a maid. Maybe in your next life!" If at this time the man meets a woman outside who cares for him and asks him about his well-being.