5 sex-related things women do: Worried about appearing too open and wanting to be more gentle

When it comes to sex, women are always more passive and shy. They are reluctant to talk about some private sexual matters, but they hope that men can understand. I hope men can understand the following "sex love stories" of women.

1. "I know how to get pleasure, but I don't want to direct you during sex because that would make me seem too open." Many times, men will self-righteously touch here and there during sex, but this cannot help women get pleasure faster and reach orgasm. In fact, they know their own bodies best and know what method is more comfortable, but they dare not say it easily for fear of hurting men's self-esteem. If you really want to know what a woman thinks, you might as well find a time other than sex to discuss it with her, such as when the two of you are leaning on the sofa watching a comedy.

2. "Having sex every day doesn't make me feel more comfortable, and having sex for too long doesn't make you look more capable." Men like to have sex frequently to show their desire and sexual ability, but in fact, in the eyes of women, sex is the sublimation of emotions when they are just right, and there is no need to force it every day. At the same time, men don’t have to worry about losing face by ejaculating too early every time they have sex, because women’s pleasure does not entirely depend on the length of time. More often than not, it is more important for men to master strength and technique than time.

3. "I can tell which moves you stole." Men like to learn some techniques and moves from porn movies, but most of them seem "flashy." Women can feel which ones are real moves and which ones are just to show off their sexual ability. Women hope that men can discard the useless "window dressing" and focus on sex.

4. "Orgasm is not everything. I won't blame you if I don't have an orgasm." For women, sex itself is a source of happiness. They cannot orgasm every time, but this does not mean that men are incompetent. They should take it easy.

5. "Wanting to chat after sex doesn't mean you're not satisfied." After sex, when a man falls asleep, a woman always feels a little lost. In fact, the woman didn't want him to sleep, she just wanted to continue to have a hug and some tenderness.