4 Signs a Woman Likes You

Boys tend to be more naive and can easily show whether they are interested in her or not. There is nothing to hide. But many boys don’t know whether some of her behaviors are a sign of a potential romance or just out of gentleness and elegance.

Being nice to me = liking me, this is how boys think. But for girls, gentleness may just be a common mask. The real signal of affection is often shown in other places.

1.Which direction is your body facing when you are talking to you?

No matter how sweetly she smiles or how sweetly she speaks, to know whether she likes you, please first look at the direction of her body.

When she is sitting, even if her upper body is leaning towards you, as long as her feet are facing the opposite direction of you or are kept together neatly, it means that her heart is not yet with you.

If you are standing and talking, observe the distance between the two people. Generally speaking, the distance within fifty centimeters is considered an intimate distance. But, don't jump to conclusions yet. Take another look at her body language. Is it defensive? For example, is she crossing her arms? If not, she has basically no guard against you.

2. Farewell

You are about to break up. For example, you have arrived at the station and you are walking away in two directions. After she takes two or three steps, does she turn around and look at you? If she just walks away without looking back, it means that you are just friends. (Superior-subordinate relationships and customer relationships are another matter)

3. Eyes don’t lie

Ask her the simplest questions first, such as what she likes to eat and what she doesn’t like to eat. What you need to observe at this time is her line of sight. NLP, the study of neurolinguistics, has a theory of eye gaze, which holds that when people have emotions such as likes and dislikes, the direction of their eyes is unconscious but specific. So, know her emotional baseline and memorize the "like" and "dislike" eye directions. Next, ask a question that connects her to you in a natural way. For example, ask her if she wants to go to a certain restaurant with you. Then observe the direction of her gaze. Is it "like" or "dislike"? Then you will know whether she really wants to date you.

No matter what she says, if her eyes are not on the "liked" side, I'm sorry, it may just be social etiquette.

4. SMS frequency

If you are still in the stage of testing the other person's feelings, try sending a few text messages that are not related to work or business. If you reply immediately, it means that the feelings are mutual; if you reply within two or three hours, and add a sentence like "I'm busy at work, sorry I just saw it", you can continue to pursue her. Otherwise, I suggest you give up. (If the other person is the type who doesn’t like texting, that’s another matter.) If she frequently exchanges text messages with you and likes to send you photos, such as which store she is in, what interesting things she has seen, etc., your affection for her is obvious.

Favor is expressed through body language, not words. Even if you are just walking together, you can tell whether the other person has you in her heart by looking at the size of her steps and whether her rhythm is in sync with yours.