The right way to have first physical contact with a girl

Not knowing how to initiate physical contact with girls is the cause of many “nice guy cards”. Some men pursue a girl for several months or even years without even touching her hand, and they still think they are very pure. These ideas are stupid. This article will tell you how to start physical contact with her.

Commonly used methods are:

1. Playful denial

Make some jokes to deny her, for example, say that she is dressed like some animal or something like that. Don't be too negative, just make it a joke. Let the other person "hit you with a smile" and make him/her initiate physical contact, then everything will be easy.

2. Ambiguous Game

Contact is achieved through palmistry, simple massage, etc.

3 Irrefutable Care

Holding hands when crossing the street (depends on the person, if you are too shy, just hold the wrist), hugging when holding an umbrella, helping to wipe things off your face... just try to imagine it. The whole process should be very natural, without looking at your own movements, so that the other person seems to have no other intentions.

4. Flirting

When chatting, in a suitable atmosphere and topic, you can deliberately pat the other person's head or play with their hair, just like you would treat a small animal. The denial attached to this behavior is: "I don't really treat you as a sister, I just treat you as a small animal."

5. Language Warm-up

Before meeting, you can kino verbally when chatting on QQ or text messages, so that when you actually kino in person, the other person will subconsciously accept it. For example: sending some emojis such as patting the head and massaging, with some joking language.

6 Tips for your first visit

1. Give the other person a reason to be touched so that she can convince herself.

For example: "Palm reading" is a game, and "holding hands while crossing the road" is a form of care.

2. Don’t give the other party a chance to refuse. No matter what you want to do, just do it naturally.

It made her feel: "She is so natural. If I refuse, I will seem weird."

3. Incidental negation.

It can be a verbal denial or a facial expression denial. There are three purposes here. First, make your behavior less deliberate. Second, make her lose the power to refuse (he is not trying to flirt with me, why should I refuse him). Third, make her want to attract you and be affirmed by you.

4. Function.

Depending on the occasion and method, the above-mentioned kino can have two effects (perhaps not at the same time): one is to make the relationship between the two people closer and prepare for further contact; the other is to confuse the other party and leave a strong impression on you (the feeling of "like" is likely to arise at this time).

7 Possible reactions

1. Very natural

Ok, your level of kino is completely acceptable to her, so kino her in a more in-depth way to further test her obedience.

2. Pretending to be natural

This girl is already a little confused, but she has to hold on and continue teasing her with the same level of kino method.

3. A little bit unnatural, but not rejected

She's already feeling very nervous, so just continue to appear calm and natural. She'll get even more confused when she sees you. You don't need to continue kinoing, otherwise the other person may be disgusted, but you can deliberately tease her with words, such as: "Why is your whole face red, haha."

4. Reject lightly

I guess the other person is not interested in you yet, so just do the previous steps first and don't rush into kino.

5. Strong Rejection

Either people have a negative impression of you, or she is just a rather introverted person. Leave her, this girl is not suitable for dating.

8 Radical Ways

If you are sure that the other person likes you, just kiss him/her forcefully. Make the other person's mind completely blank and completely confused.

This method is not recommended. I have only tried forced kissing after I had fully kinoed.

A more radical approach is to force the kiss without thinking twice. This is an advanced technique and may not work for everyone.