shock! 90% of people make sexual mistakes in bed

Sex psychologists explained that most women choose breasts because most couples in the world are still accustomed to having sex in the woman-at-bottom position, and when this most traditional missionary position is adopted, the woman's breasts are facing her eyes. Therefore, the first subconscious association it brings to women is "sex".

In addition, 19% of women chose "hand or arm" (women who chose this answer are mostly artistic and value spirit over body), 21% of women chose "nose" (women who chose this answer are the introverted type and are full of fantasies about sex), and less than 10% of women chose the place closest to the penis, the buttocks (the best choice for honest women who enjoy physical sensations).

"Assumption": "The more muscular I am, the more my sexual partner will like it"

Many men blindly pursue a good figure, but not for health. In their imagination, the more muscular they are, the better they can please their partners in bed.

However, research has shown that muscular men are not the best sexual partners chosen by most women. Having well-developed muscles is more about satisfying men's own vanity.

In fact, the most ideal lover's body shape for women is: gentle eyes, slender limbs, soft and elastic skin, and biceps and pectoralis major muscles should not be overdeveloped.

"Assumed": "Try to make love last longer, it will make me look diligent"

There was a civil aviation pilot who would try to prolong his sex time as much as possible after each flight. The foreplay and afterplay would last up to 2-3 hours, and the time spent on the main action would not be less than an hour. To others, this seemed to be his wife's happiness, but the woman complained that the long period of sex made her physically exhausted, but the husband was very dissatisfied because he had learned that women's orgasm comes slower than men's, so the longer the sex time, the easier it is for women to orgasm, so he tried his best to prolong the sex time every time.

The problem lies in the public's misunderstanding of the process of achieving orgasm. Women do not achieve orgasm later than men, but are more passive than men. If you are an experienced sex worker, it will only take a few minutes to find a woman's G-spot, A-spot and U-spot and quickly bring her to orgasm.

In addition, even if the man is not so enthusiastic and proactive, the woman will reach orgasm quickly if she finds the right position. Deliberately prolonging intercourse in order to pursue the woman's orgasm, in addition to causing physical fatigue, is often accompanied by questions from men such as "Did you reach it?" and "Are you comfortable?" From the perspective of women, this deliberateness will make them rebellious, and the orgasm that was originally about to come is also suppressed due to psychological factors.

Once an orgasm is suppressed during intercourse, it is difficult to achieve it again. And for men, deliberately prolonging the time of sex and having no time to enjoy the real pleasure of sex is really not worth it. Some women say that muscular men make them associate them with sexual violence and rough sexual techniques.

There is also a large number of women who admit that they dislike muscular men the most, because these women are often subconsciously narcissists. They hope that their bodies are better than men in bed. When a muscular man appears in front of them, they often immediately feel inferior and fearful, and the subsequent sex becomes boring.

In recent years, the trend has begun to become androgynous men. They are thin but have soft skin. They are polite to women and seem to pose no threat. However, they have become idols in the dreams of many women. This phenomenon is closely related to the rising feminist ideology, and it also proves once again that muscular men are no longer popular.

"Assumed" thing: "Men talking dirty in bed is very attractive"

Speaking of this, we have to mention the classic work on gender, "Sex and the City". Charlotte's lover seems to be a well-mannered gentleman, but he likes to call her a "bitch" when he climaxes, which makes her really intolerable; and in real life, there are also many men who are keen on swearing during sex, and even take pleasure in teasing each other's sexual organs and sexual performance. They think this is very "manly" and "interesting", but they don't know that most women hate it. It’s just that in a sexual environment, they cannot object immediately, but they feel vaguely unhappy in their hearts. Over time, this little bit of unhappiness becomes the most terrifying hidden danger.

Sex experts tell us: Only a small number of women like to be treated with foul language in bed. Most women want men to be "powerful", "strong and reliable", "gentle and skillful" and "

Know when to stop." Although this wish is idealistic, everyone can imagine: as long as the woman does not have major psychological problems, she will not be willing to be called a "bitch", no matter what the occasion, including in bed.