Which is better, sex orgasm or masturbation?

First, let's talk about the so-called "innocence". If stopping masturbation is your own decision, it deserves respect, which shows that you care about the feelings of others. But it seems a bit hypocritical. Since you have masturbated more than once, is there any difference between this and 100 times? The desire to maintain the so-called "innocence" is completely influenced by the stale and negative culture, religion, family, spirituality, and wrong beliefs. Even the so-called "purity" should be limited to sexual intercourse. Chastity has nothing to do with masturbation, so there is no need to do so.

It seems like you have already orgasmed through masturbation

This should be enough to reassure you that you are normal and your body is working properly, meaning you have taught your body how to respond to touch. If women begin intercourse before learning to orgasm, they have little or no information about whether their bodies can respond properly to sexual stimulation, and they are less prepared physically and mentally for intercourse than you are.

Stopping masturbation completely is actually a challenge

Because habit becomes nature, and masturbation has several important meanings: for example, it helps people relax and restore abundant energy, it helps to fall asleep and improve sleep quality, it helps to adjust the mentality and eliminate irritability. If you find it difficult to stop masturbating, that is completely understandable, as masturbation and the sexual satisfaction found from it are as natural and healthy as eating, drinking, defecating, urinating and sleeping. Masturbation and sexual intercourse are different experiences. Masturbation will not diminish the feeling of sexual intercourse, nor will it have any negative impact on sexual intercourse. For most people, masturbation before or after marriage is not something to worry about.

From a physiological point of view

Many men and women believe that the orgasm brought by masturbation is stronger and more powerful, but this is not a problem at all. Being together as a couple is naturally more exciting. In addition, knowledge of one's erogenous zones, emotional state, energy level, tension, movements, adaptation, context, pressure of the type of stimulation (fingers, tools, sex organs), arousal level, alcohol or beverages consumed, feelings toward one's partner, and so on can all affect orgasm and sensations. As for the reasons why most people think that masturbation orgasm is stronger than sexual intercourse, it includes: because the stimulation methods and arousal levels of the two are different, especially for women, the pleasure brought by masturbation is stronger than both the sexual experience and the orgasm of sexual intercourse. For example, women can experience hugs, intimacy, consideration and strong desires during sexual intercourse, but they often do not touch the clitoris that they are very familiar with and love during masturbation. As a result, about 2/3 of women cannot reach orgasm during sexual intercourse. This is not necessarily a problem. We have discussed such issues repeatedly in the past. As long as women allow their partners to satisfy them according to the stimulation they are accustomed to and yearn for. Therefore, there is no question of which orgasm is more powerful. In fact, as long as both parties are satisfied and happy, whether or not there is an orgasm is not a problem. Women who have difficulty in reaching orgasm do not necessarily have a mental problem.