99% of men think about this in bed

It is undeniable that men are good at organizing things, and they often go over all the things they have experienced in the day over and over in their minds like watching a movie. What should have been done was not done, and what should not have been done was done; what should have been done well was a mess, and what was hopeless turned out to be a success; what people did I meet, who were these people, what did I talk about, what did I do; was this day a successful day or a failed day, will it have any impact on tomorrow, is it a positive impact or a negative impact, how big is the impact, what was the reason for the success, what was the reason for the failure, etc.

Second thing: What should I do tomorrow?

The burden on a married man is much heavier than that on an unmarried man, so he will look ahead before taking one step, or even three or four steps. How to make up for the things that were not completed today, and how to avoid today's mistakes tomorrow; what things need to be done tomorrow, and sort them according to their importance, what will happen after these things are completed, and what will happen if they are not completed; who do you need to meet, and who do you need to call or text.

What kind of help will these people bring to your career or family; predict what things will go smoothly tomorrow, what things will go wrong, how to avoid unnecessary complications, etc. For a career-oriented man, he thinks more about how to take his career to a higher level tomorrow; for a family-oriented man, he thinks more about how to make his life even better tomorrow.

The third thing: How to make the other half of the bed warmer

After marriage, there is one bed, with the husband and wife on each side. For responsible married men, how to make their other half of the bed warmer and how to make their wife and children happier are things they often think about before going to bed every night.

Although career-oriented men focus on their careers, how to make their wives and children live a more dignified life is also an indispensable part of their thoughts day and night; family-oriented men often think about how to make their wives and children live an easier life and how to improve their quality of life. They will calculate everything they have done today and yesterday, how far they are from their ideal life goals, and how they can strive tomorrow to shorten the distance between their ideals and reality.

Some people may say that men are men. Don’t men think about that when they lie in bed after marriage? Of course they do, but just not every day. The pressure of life has made them walk on thin ice. How to live a more comfortable life, how to make their wives and children live with more dignity, and how to make the family warmer and happier are the daily compulsory courses that they work hard on.

Therefore, once a good man lies down after marriage, he is sometimes more tired than when he is standing, because he has too many things in his mind that need to be digested, sorted out, chosen, and prepared for. If you find that your husband often cannot sleep at night and toss and turn in bed, he must be thinking. You cannot remain indifferent at this time. You should give him encouragement and a warm hug in time.