Why do men care so much about a woman’s past?

It is said that men are broad-minded and tolerant, but there is one thing that men are not so carefree about, but they care about it particularly and cannot let it go, and that is a woman’s past. Don't disbelieve it, there are many such men in life. When they are in love, they are particularly interested in their girlfriend's past and always try to find out the truth in a roundabout way. When he establishes a relationship with this woman, he will subconsciously have the idea that "I should know everything about her." But it is different for women. Once a woman has a boyfriend, she values ​​the man's present and future, but does not care much about his past. So, why do men care so much about a person's past?

However, this is also an open era, people's minds are becoming more open, and their emotional world is becoming richer. When it comes to love and sex, it can be said that “youth and songs are the way.” Most young men and women will have several love stories of their own, which may be lingering, crazy, or fresh in the memory... These love affairs will occasionally be opened by the door of memory, and recalled and chewed, or bring a knowing smile, or tears, making people feel a kind of sadness of confusion. Especially some young women, since they were the protagonists of this emotional story, even if they get married and have children, even if their lives are about to come to an end, the unforgettable memory will still haunt them.

It is not difficult to imagine that a woman’s past love history is an emotional story for her. Since they did not end up together, the good feelings when recalling her past love history are still sweet but with a hint of pain. But for a male chauvinist who has been indoctrinated by traditional culture for thousands of years, even if he is fickle by nature and continues to cheat and pursue beauties after marriage, a woman's love history is not an emotional story, but a hurdle that cannot be overcome. This is because once a man falls in love with a woman, he will find out everything about her, even if it is from a long time ago. So, how should a woman face this love history? Should she speak out and confess the truth, or should she just laugh it off and hide the truth?

To be fair, this is indeed a topic that needs to be taken seriously in intimate relationships. After all, men are always very selfish emotionally. Once they allow a woman to enter his emotional world, he will regard this woman as the center of his life and pour all his emotions into this woman. He not only cares about her present, but also her future, and subconsciously cares about her past. In other words, this woman, whether in the past, present, or future, should belong to him. To be honest, although this phenomenon has improved to a great extent today, traces of this ideological imprint can still be seen among some men.

In fact, when a man loves a woman, his love is mixed with possession, and his love is permeated with desire. Men are particularly concerned about a woman’s past. The reason is that he doesn’t care about what school you attended in the past, whether your grades were good or bad, or how many close friends you had. He cares about how many love affairs this woman had in the past, what happened with other men, whether they had slept with each other, and whether the one he had had was his first time. Don't disbelieve it, there are many such men in reality. Even some men who consider themselves progressive and trendy still "care" about this in their hearts. To put it bluntly, men care about a woman's past, whether she is "chaste", and whether they have been "cuckolded". That's all!

Although times are changing and the concept of gender equality has taken root in people's minds, it is regrettable that men still dominate the world today. Men's requirements for women have not changed fundamentally, and they still regard having a woman's first time as more important than their own life. This is why men care so much about a woman’s past. Therefore, what Gu Yue wanted to say was that as a woman, it is better not to talk about her past, especially the things between men and women. Never be fooled by a man who says, "It's okay, I won't take it to heart," because men are like that. This is not only the sadness of women, but also a reality that cannot be avoided. Believe it or not!