The most tempting ambiguous relationship

Ambiguous 1: Brother and sister

For the "brother", the meaning of the little sister's existence is that it makes him want to protect her. When the heroism in the man's heart needs to be vented, when he feels helpless and lonely, the "little sister's" cleverness and tenderness often make him feel more comfortable than ordinary gentleness and thoughtfulness, and her admiration for him makes him feel extra confident, which just satisfies a certain spiritual desire for conquest of men. For the "sister", what she wants is very simple - to be loved and protected.

To the "sister", before she has a perfect boyfriend, the "brother" is a very caring little follower who has the dual benefits of a man and a boy. He will not deliberately make things difficult for her, and he will not betray his oath when she is in trouble. But when her maternal instinct is revealed, he becomes a cute and innocent "little thing". To a "brother", an "sister" is often a trustworthy and feminine woman.

Potential crisis: In real life, most "family" relationships are often difficult to evolve into true love relationships. In this kind of relationship between a man and a woman, there is more pity and love, less common language, let alone equal experience.

The feelings of "younger brothers and sisters" towards "older brothers and sisters" are often heavier and more complicated, and it is easy to get caught up in it and find it difficult to extricate themselves. Once the "ambiguity" is excessive, once the "older brothers and sisters" have a lover, the "younger brothers and sisters" will inevitably become a stumbling block.

Ambiguity 2: Red and Blue

When they are in a bad mood or encounter various problems in life, they become fish that "support each other in times of distress". Once the tide rises, they swim away on their own. Even if both parties have their own lovers, some private and intimate words are only told to their "red-faced and blue-faced" lovers.

To a certain extent, this kind of relationship between men and women mostly remains at the spiritual level of love. It can also be said that compared with the relationship between lovers, they only lack physical communication.

Even the most innocent confidantes, if one of them is not open-minded and sensible enough, they can easily be misunderstood as the third party; secondly, after all, they are a man and a woman, once "a thousand cups are not enough for drinking with a confidant", and they are overly affectionate, they are bound to "undress", and once the last line of defense is broken, this "confidant" relationship will be difficult to continue.

Ambiguity 3: Internet Lover

Online, they "fell in love" and even held a wedding. For two strangers who had never met each other, word games were a source of mutual dependence and interest. They are addicted and the Internet makes them look "perfect".

Different from general online romance, this kind of online lovers usually never meet in person, but just rely on their imagination of each other to create all kinds of romantic atmosphere and fantasy. Unlike love in real life, the cost of online lovers is very low and there is no need to bear moral pressure.

Because what they love is just their own imagination and the maze created by words. So if, just if, we meet, the consequences would be hard to imagine.

Ambiguity 4: Sharing a house with the opposite sex

Compared with same-sex sharing, living together brings more pleasure, trust and relaxation. Just like the meaning of “men and women working together makes work less tiring” in the office, this kind of new tenant-tenant relationship is full of fun in another sense. The survey shows that most women who share a house with the opposite sex believe that men will not haggle with women about details such as the size of the room, its orientation, and who uses the bathroom more and who uses it less. However, the situation between women is much more complicated, and in serious cases, the couple may even part ways unhappily and become enemies.

Real men and women sharing a house respect each other, keep their distance, and help each other. For both parties, they can experience most of the advantages of the opposite sex and avoid the trouble of mutual suspicion, monopolization, and pettiness.

The house itself is already very ambiguous. Single men and women living in the same room, even if they are not in the same bedroom, are already very, very close. People who go home tend to return to their true selves, and the casual, free, undisciplined and even ugly details of their lives are exposed to each other. Although some of them may develop into love because of their very similar lifestyles, they are still a pair of men and women with a distance between them after all. People of the opposite sex who share a house can easily develop into a couple, and then evolve from sharing a house to living together.

However, if you seek to live together out of momentary blindness or with the mentality of solving personal problems, you may be exploited by people with ulterior motives, which may hurt your relationship and disrupt your life.

Ambiguity 5: Part-time Parent

Their relationships mostly developed from work cooperation. Many times, it is women who take the initiative, believing that it is natural to be taken care of by men, and men's "heroic" mentality makes them feel honored most of the time. In this kind of relationship, there is often a greater element of exploitation.

Because such a relationship is based on simple "mutual care and mutual benefit", men and women often lack a common language. Once the care fails or the "service" is not thoughtful enough, it is easy for the relationship to deteriorate. In addition, some scandals often appear around such "part-time parents". Maybe you just took a ride with someone, but how do others know where the end of the ride is?

Ambiguity 6: Dating Partner

They are not a couple, but they often date, travel, drink, and watch movies together... They are regular dating partners. In a popular sense, it can also be understood as "drinking and eating buddies". They often have a common interest in a certain hobby or behavioral habit, and they can be enthusiastic and happy when they come and leave every date. It is also a Jiang Taigong fishing model where one wants to accompany and the other is willing to accompany.

It seems that the new relationship between men and women has been divided into more and more subdivided categories, and needs to be divided according to responsibilities, hobbies, specific functions, etc. The subtlety lies in the fact that birds of a feather flock together.

If the relationship between dating partners is stable and certain enough, and is based on common interests and hobbies, it can be called like-minded. If one party is lonely and needs entertainment, while the other is just there for "company", then such a relationship is suspicious. Or the one who is willing to accompany is secretly in love with the one who needs to accompany, which undoubtedly hurts the feelings of one of them and wastes the time of the other.