What is normal married life?

Nowadays, many couples do not pay attention to the quality of life between husband and wife, especially some couples who have been married for many years. They feel like brothers and sisters to each other and their life is just ordinary. Of course, there are also some couples who fight with each other. The feeling state in such circumstances will affect the life between husband and wife. Although there is no fixed formula for married life, harmonious married life can promote family harmony to a certain extent.

What is normal married life?

The question of how many times of sexual intercourse is appropriate for people of different ages is rather complicated and cannot be regulated mechanically. The general principle is that there should be no obvious fatigue, mental depression, backache and weakness on the second day after sexual intercourse, and it should not affect work and study. It is mainly determined by individual factors such as age, physique, and personality.

Normal married life

1. Generally speaking, young people under 30 years old should have sex 2-4 times a week, those aged 30-40 should have sex 1-2 times a week, those aged 40-50 should have sex once a week, those aged 50-60 should have sex 1-2 times every 3-4 weeks, and those aged 60 and above should have sex 1-2 times every 4 weeks. People should pay attention not to simply pursue the number of sexual intercourses, but also strive to make each sexual intercourse perfect. One perfect sexual intercourse is more satisfying than two imperfect sexual intercourses.

2. In medicine, a healthy and complete sexual physiological response process, from the beginning of sexual arousal to the calming down, is called a sexual response cycle, which is artificially divided into four stages, namely the excitement stage, the continuous stage, the climax stage and the resolution stage. To complete this process, several basic conditions must be met.

①Humans are social beings with advanced nervous activities and thinking abilities, so they must first have a sound neuroendocrine regulation system. That is, first there is a psychological desire to engage in sexual life, and then through the central nervous system, it directs the sexual control center in the hypothalamus, pituitary gland and spinal cord, which is transmitted through nerves and acts on the sexual organs to complete a series of physiological reactions. In men, it causes penile erection and ejaculation, while in women, it causes clitoral erection, vaginal gland secretions and rhythmic muscle contractions.

②Sex hormones play a role in inducing and driving sexual desire in controlling sexual activities. When hormone levels are low and there is no sexual desire, the central nervous system cannot become excited. Therefore, an appropriate amount of sex hormones can maintain normal sexual function and is closely related to fertility.

③ Have normal sexual organs. Certain defects of the genitals, such as developmental abnormalities, inflammation, tumors, injuries, etc., can affect sexual life.

④Necessary sexual stimulation is also indispensable, which is the starting valve of sexual desire. Any abnormality in any of these aspects will affect the normal physiological activities.