Smart women don't make this mistake in bed

A harmonious sex life requires cooperation between men and women. However, after having sex, many women often give men "suggestions" for improvement: longer foreplay, more tenderness afterwards, don't just sleep with your head covered, etc. It seems that women are always nagging, but in fact, some of women's sexual behaviors often make men grumble. Some smart women know how to avoid the things that make men unhappy. The following are some aspects that most men think women need to improve.

1. Too quiet. Ben, 30, said: "If the only sound made when having sex with a woman is the creaking of the bed, there would be nothing more embarrassing than this." Making love in silence sends the message to the other person that "I'm not interested in sex at all." For men, the silence of their lover is a great "insult." In her book "The Secret of Making Love", Sally Locke points out that it is important to make some sounds during sex, whether it is moaning or praise, which are all "catalysts" for a perfect sex life.

2. Don’t caress men. Enjoying caress is not just for women. Men also need caress to stimulate their emotions and feel loved. Dennis, 31, said: "Don't ignore your testicles. Give them some caressing and massage. Men will really like it."

3. Don’t take the first step. Many women believe that men should take the initiative during sex, but Brett, 33, said it is very sexy for a female partner to take the initiative to send flirtatious text messages or directly take off her clothes to invite sex.

4. Like to use brute force. Men like women to masturbate them, but some women are too strong and don't know how to proceed step by step. Hank, 37, said: "I don't understand why gentle women act like they want to rip their partners' penises off when they masturbate. It should be done in rhythm and with lubrication."

5. Stimulate men according to your own preferences. Some women like to have certain parts of their bodies stimulated, so they treat men in the same way, which is actually not advisable. Lei, 40, said: "My girlfriend likes me to stimulate her nipples, and she will rub and play with my nipples. In fact, touching my nipples makes me very uncomfortable, but I am embarrassed to tell her."

6. Don’t say what you want. Women know what they want and don't want in sex, but many won't say it. "The goal of sex is the same for both men and women, which is to orgasm," said Ricky, 25. "But I can't get her there without a road map. Women know their bodies well, so if there's anything you want me to do to make the night memorable, just let me know."

7. Pretend to have an orgasm. Women think that faking an orgasm will make men feel accomplished, but most men can tell the difference between "real" and "fake". "Men don't like it when women fake orgasms," says Soroshes. "We can accept honest criticism, which will help men perform better next time."

8. Sudden slap on the butt. Brian said: "If a woman slaps you on the butt without telling you beforehand during sex, it feels like being kicked and it's a real letdown."