If you tap into this potential of women, you will be completely blessed.

Women tend to pay more attention to "pain during intercourse" during their first sexual intercourse. Men must make women feel loved. At the same time, choosing a comfortable location and environment can also allow her to be more relaxed during sex. Understand the characteristics of a woman's body, stimulate her sexual potential, and fully enjoy your intimate sexual time.

How to discover the sexual potential of women?

Point 1 First time

When a girl first falls in love and understands the relationship between men and women, she begins to imagine what her "first time" will be like.

In fact, the fear of “whether it will hurt the first time” is far more dominant than the fear of “whether it will feel good the first time”. Among the women surveyed, a staggering 75% felt terrible, "very nervous, it was over almost without penetration", "foreplay was too short, insertion was not smooth", "can't orgasm"; "hope it will be over quickly, maybe I'm frigid"... Alas, the first sexual experience is really hard to describe.

But it doesn’t matter. After all, it’s your “first time” and no one will be an excellent student right from the start. What you need to do first is to eliminate the fear of sex and learn to explore your own body. You have to know that you are each other's "sex toys" and it takes time to find the switches in each of you. Take some time, take it slow, and don't rush. I believe that as you have sex more often, you will be able to enjoy it better.

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Eliminate psychological fear

When having sex, don't be too violent the first time. It is best to use the slightest force to pierce the hymen. In this regard, we can learn from the male protagonist in "Love in the Time of Cholera". In order to eliminate his wife's fear of sex, he deliberately let his wife appreciate his "thing" all night without having sex.

Women who are having sex for the first time are more often focused on the feeling of being loved and have more spiritual demands. Gentle movements will make her feel satisfied, while too quick and too large movements will make her feel uncomfortable or even painful.

Don't try new tricks at the beginning

For a woman’s “first time”, it is best to start with only common ways of having sex. Alternative ways of having sex may make her feel scared or disgusted. Wait until you two have sex more times, then you can slowly try some new things. In addition, the location and environment of the first sexual intercourse should be as comfortable as possible, which can better eliminate women's nervousness and make them more relaxed during sex.

Point 2: The first year of marriage

Sexual activity after marriage is a qualitative leap. The sense of happiness, security, mutual trust, freshness and exploration of sexual life that marriage brings are all the psychological basis for "you are good, I am good too".

Although many women cannot experience orgasm in the initial stages of marriage, in an atmosphere full of tenderness and love and driven by sexual instinct, they will still feel great joy in sexual activities and actively and wholeheartedly devote themselves to their sex life after marriage.

If there is a "baby-making plan" to liberate women from contraceptive measures, the unrestrained, carefree, relaxed and free involvement, the excitement and excitement of creating a new life will often bring women to a peak of sexual desire.

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Know your body

Know how to please your body, alone or with your partner. Explore area by area, stay curious, and be mindful of your approach. Don't feel any pressure, this is just a quest for knowledge.

Don't just think about the bed, you can have sex in many places

The beach, the car, the kitchen...the choice is yours.

Changing locations can spice things up and satisfy the exposure urge within each of us. Semi-public sex ranks among the top five sexual fantasies of men. It ranks among the top ten sexual fantasies of women. Therefore, if you are willing to take limited risks and change the place of sex, you will be more valued by men.

Point 3: Mature Woman

At the age of 30 to 40, women reach the peak of their sexual potential. As early as the 1970s, sexologists discovered that sexual pleasure is not only related to the body, but also closely related to the brain. They believe that sex is a dual activity of "mind" and "body" - if you have a good attitude, then your body will be greatly rewarded. At this time, women are more mature mentally than in their twenties, and have established a unique sense of intimacy and trust with their spouses, which can make sex seem higher quality and more harmonious.

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Try to take the initiative

The most common complaint from men is that “she never asks for it.” So, those women who ask for it can be rewarded with a big five-pointed star. If you always wait for him to take the initiative, you will lose points. If you rarely take the initiative, but do it occasionally, you will have the magic power to release sexual desire. No matter how tired he was before, this time he will be full of joy because he is completely unprepared.

As long as it is within rational limits, you can try it.

Good lovers don't criticize their partner's unconventional suggestions. If he wants you to dress like a vampire and say dirty words from classic vampire movies, so what? As long as it doesn't cause you physical or emotional harm and doesn't become a "repertoire" every time you have sex, there's nothing wrong with it. If your lover says to you, "I've always wanted to try this, but I was too embarrassed to tell anyone before," then congratulations, you score very high.