There is a world of difference between "pornography" and "erotica"

The "erotic culture" between husband and wife belongs to the world of two people, so it has nothing to do with dirtiness or vulgarity. Instead, it is very interesting and often exudes a charming "fragrance of desire."

First of all, I must explain that we are not talking about "pornography" here. The word order is different, and the connotation is often changed, just like the difference between "sensibility" and "sexiness".

Husband and wife are the only legal partners. But after being together for a long time, this kind of "sex" may become a routine "business" or "obligation". Some couples even rigidly stipulate that they must do "that thing" on a certain day of each cycle, which may destroy the psychedelic color of "sex".

In addition to topics such as work, life, and children, there is another topic between couples that is related to sex and love, and this is "erotic culture." It may be a joke, game, flirting, or even coquettishness, anger, etc. between couples. If these "internal reference" behaviors are carried out on others, they may be a form of sexual harassment or even hooliganism. Another point is that they may be different from other popular behaviors. Sometimes, some "jargon" can only be understood by the two of them, which will produce an ambiguous and sweet sense of complicity. For example, there is a couple who like to give nicknames to their lover's private parts. The husband jokingly calls his wife's private parts "Oscar", and the wife mischievously calls her husband's private parts "cadre".

Although the "erotic culture" between husband and wife is not all related to sexual themes, it is confined to the intimate world of two people and therefore does not appear dirty or vulgar. Instead, it is very interesting and exudes a fascinating "fragrance of desire."

For example, some men buy sexy underwear for their wives. "Thoughtful" sanitary napkins, etc. These are all very beautiful behaviors; men often like to make some sexual jokes, but for wives, those are not necessarily "dirty" things, but rather show the humorous side. My friend Aliang, his wife calls him "Zhu Geliang" in the bedroom. Before going to bed, he always drinks a glass of wine to cheer himself up. Once, he urged his wife to drink a few sips, but she refused. He then said, "Drink this glass of wine for the sake of having sex after drinking, honey!" His wife was very smart. She heard the hidden meaning in his words and realized that he was up to something "evil", so she drank a few sips reluctantly...

A lady who writes poetry likes to sprinkle some pink rose petals on the mat on the 16th night of the lunar calendar every month (here refers to summer). Obviously, she wants to create an atmosphere of love. If a woman falls asleep with a scent of fragrance in her arms, her husband will surely become excited. Sometimes, she would do something vulgar, like in the humorous Xiaoqingli said, when her husband came home late, she would leave a note on the dining table: The wine is in the cupboard, the vegetables are in the pot, and your wife is in the bed!

The expression of alluring charm is so charming that it makes people's heart beat!

A wife accompanied her husband to watch a football game and seemed exhausted on the way home. In order to stimulate her, her husband said "with ill intentions": "Wife, you've worked so hard today, I feel so sorry for you! When we get home, I will do that to you..." with an evil smile on his face.

The wife held back her laughter and replied in a deliberately unpleasant tone, "What do you mean by that? I have my period today, so I can't!" The husband pretended to be innocent and pure, "I mean I will help you mop the floor, wash clothes, water the flowers..." Then, he pretended to wake up from a dream and shouted, "Well - you are so lecherous!"

After her husband had finished cooking in the kitchen, his wife ran over and whispered in his ear, "You are so considerate, but if you keep me warm and well fed, I will also make you lustful!"

This is the "erotic culture" of the couple, which is funny, fun, relaxed and lively, very real, and a little bit comedic. Being romantic but not vulgar seems to be the "art of the bedroom", but it also has great flexibility in life. True love cannot avoid "sex", so why should we give up its fun and romance?