More than half of couples fail to meet this standard

Is your sex life at a comfortable level? Or are you still struggling to get out of poverty? A truly happy sex life is one in which both husband and wife achieve physical and psychological satisfaction. Compare the following well-off standards, have you reached them?

Dr. Masters and Johnson, contemporary authorities in sexual medicine, pointed out in their research reports that 50% of couples have problems with their sex life. So, what are the crux of the problem in this regard, how to remedy it, how to improve it? In fact, it is not difficult to have a well-off sex life, as long as you meet the following 6 standards:

Standard 1: Love Connection

Without separating "sex" and "love", they insist that the "heart" occupies a central position in sexual life as well as in other areas. They regard sex life as an extremely important part of the relationship, and they are both willing and committed to their own and each other's sexual satisfaction.

Standard 2: No right or wrong

Couples with harmonious and happy sex lives understand that there are no absolute standards in sex life that everyone should follow, and there is no question of what is right and what is wrong. As long as both parties are satisfied, it is sexual happiness.

Standard 3: Overcoming “No”

Some women often say "no" to their husbands' sexual requests. For couples with a harmonious sex life, both parties focus on satisfying each other's sexual needs and will try to overcome their original resistance and the tendency to say "no".

Standard 4: Filling the gap

Couples with a happy sex life may also encounter the problem of "gender gap", but because their relationship is filled with a spirit of caring for each other and seeking mutual satisfaction, they will take the initiative to make up for any gap that may exist.

Standard 5: Dare to talk about taboos

There has long been a taboo in society against talking about sex. Couples who have a successful sex life never view each other as gods who can read other people's minds, but open their hearts to have honest discussions about their sex life. They also understand that expecting the other person or both parties to engage in a new behavior, action, posture, or approach does not mean that there is anything wrong with the past.

Standard 6: A wonderful balance

In sexual life, each party has to give and receive, both men and women need to serve each other and accept each other's service. A wonderful balance of mutual, active, and complete giving and accepting established between a couple will make their sex life always a happy one for both parties.

However, repetitive sexual intercourse is not good for health and makes it difficult to maintain long-lasting sexual pleasure, which should be taken seriously by both husband and wife.

1. For both men and women, it will cause great physical exhaustion, which will inevitably lead to poor physical condition over time. It will then affect the mental state, and even the thinking ability, memory, and analytical ability will deteriorate.

2. Due to the continuous and repeated occurrence of sexual impulses, both men and women will have an increased burden on the sex control nerve center and sexual organs. The result of frequent fatigue will be the opposite of what is expected, which will lead to a decline in sexual function and cause "premature aging" of sexual function.

3. Men who frequently have sex will prolong the time of ejaculation, because the second ejaculation will definitely take longer than the first time. This will lay the hidden dangers of inducing sexual dysfunctions such as impotence, no ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and lack of pleasure in sexual life in the future.

4. Men have a non-responsive period after sexual intercourse, that is, there is a period of time after the end of sexual intercourse when they no longer respond to sexual stimulation. Frequent and repeated sexual intercourse will prolong the non-responsive period, which can easily lead to sexual dysfunction.

5. Men who frequently have sex will develop prostatitis, seminal vesiculitis and other diseases due to repeated and persistent congestion of the sexual organs, which will not only cause discomfort in the perineum, back pain, but also hematospermia. If women frequently have repeated sexual intercourse, their sexual organs will always be in a state of congestion, which will induce pelvic congestion, the so-called pelvic congestion syndrome, causing discomfort such as back pain and heaviness in the lower body.

6. Regardless of men or women, when having repeated sexual intercourse, the degree of sexual satisfaction during the second, third or fourth sexual intercourse will be lower than the previous time, which can easily cause psychological impact and make them think that there is a problem with their sexual ability, which ultimately leads to sexual dysfunction caused by psychological and mental factors.