8 small flaws in men that are worth forgiving

In life, some men often forget things. It’s not because they are useless, but because men are naturally careless and inattentive. Listed below are several small mistakes made by men that are worthy of women's forgiveness. You must grasp the right degree and control them if they are slightly wrong. At the same time, it is best not to have three or more of these mistakes in the same man at the same time, otherwise you have to analyze and intervene as appropriate.

First, I can’t find things at home.

Error description: I often can’t find daily necessities at home, including oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, socks, needles and thread, etc.

The limit should be: no more than twice a week. Those annoying men who don't even look for women should be dealt with firmly. "Hands-off bosses" and speculative behavior should never be allowed.

Prerequisites for forgiveness: only limited to men who are extremely busy at work, perform well, and have a sense of responsibility towards their family.

Reasons worthy of forgiveness: Everyone has their own expertise. It is natural for men to take care of external affairs and for women to take care of internal affairs. It’s just that their revolutions are different.

Second, they like to watch pornographic pictures and videos

Error description: Often browsing pornographic websites, including pictures, videos, and novels, alone or in front of his wife.

The right degree should be grasped: no more than once a week, and each time should be controlled within one hour.

Prerequisites for forgiveness: there is no other woman outside, he can pay enough public grain every month, ensure the quality of sex life, have sufficient foreplay, and not fall asleep immediately after doing it.

Reasons to be forgiven: Men are carnivores. To prevent their lower bodies from making big mistakes, a combination of loosening and blocking is necessary. Moderate sexual freedom and stress release are the guarantee of men's marital happiness and mental health.

Third, when you go out on the street, you stare at beautiful women from time to time.

Wrong description: When I walk down the street and see a beautiful woman with fair skin, long legs and big breasts, I can't help but look back a few times.

The degree that should be grasped: each glance should not exceed thirty seconds, do not drool while glancing, do not affect normal walking and shopping, and do not chase after beautiful women or lose protection for yourself, and ensure that there are no car accidents or collisions with electric poles.

Prerequisites for forgiveness: truly love your wife, praise her well, and praise your wife once a week.

Reasons worthy of forgiveness: Who doesn't like to look at beautiful women? This shows that he is not pretentious and is still young.

Fourth, playing cards or online games

Error description: Whenever he has some free time, he likes to play cards or lock himself in the room to play online games.

The right degree should be struck: not affecting normal work, study, family life and physical health.

Prerequisites for forgiveness: no other bad habits, not spending your own money to buy game equipment without restraint or losing money for a long time, and being able to patiently listen to your wife and help your children with their homework.

Reasons worthy of forgiveness: As a man, you should always have some hobbies. Hobbies that can exercise your brain and have a purpose are much better than those hobbies of going to brothels or gambling in groups. At the same time, this is more in line with the rules of marriage than letting him stay at home and spoil you all day.

Fifth, forgetting the wedding anniversary and wife’s birthday

Error description: Every time it’s his wedding anniversary or his wife’s birthday, he always fails to remember or express gratitude in time.

The degree to be grasped: Except in special circumstances such as family changes, they are not allowed to make the same mistake more than twice in a row. And require them to repent and make amends afterwards.

Prerequisites for forgiveness: generally good performance, no bad record, no ambiguous relationship outside, and busy with work.

Reasons worthy of forgiveness: Men are very careless. It is almost impossible to expect him to remember your birthday and wedding anniversary for decades like he did before marriage. The most fundamental reason lies in men's genes. In fact, most of the time women don’t have to care too much about superficial forms. His seriousness at work and responsibility for his family is actually the best gift for women.

Sixth, go to bed without washing your feet

Error description: From time to time, accidentally or knowingly, you go to bed without washing your feet.

The right degree to grasp: no more than twice a week, and these two days cannot happen consecutively. Or when you don’t wash your feet, you can take the initiative to sleep in a separate bed in the guest room, and clean the bed afterwards.

Prerequisites for forgiveness: listen to your wife’s advice during major events and critical moments, pay attention to your dress, and maintain good personal hygiene.

Reasons worthy of forgiveness: For many men, their laziness sometimes has no reason. It is a way to relieve stress, just like women are very unreasonable for a few days every month.

Seventh, bragging without thinking

Wrong description: Likes to say something shocking from time to time, exaggerating the truth of things, and talking about how loyal he is, how good he is at drinking, how capable he is, etc.

The degree that should be grasped: be able to distinguish the occasion, and be able to restrain oneself in time after receiving reminders and interference signals from your wife.

Prerequisites for forgiveness: Acting pragmatically in daily life and considering family interests more important than face.

Reasons worthy of forgiveness: Men’s love to brag is like women’s vanity; moderation is motivation, while excess is disaster.

Eighth, smoking and drinking

Wrong description: I like to smoke and drink before meals.

The limit should be kept in mind: Be careful about the occasion when smoking, do not smoke more than five cigarettes a day, do not smoke in front of children and family members, and pay attention to the environment and hygiene of the home. Don't drink too much. Drink alcohol of appropriate grade according to your specific financial strength, and make sure it does not affect your normal work and life.

Prerequisites for forgiveness: love your family and your job, even if you love drinking and smoking, and you must ensure that you will not lose your job after drinking, and you must break your necessary smoking habits.

Reasons worthy of forgiveness: Everything has two sides. Men's smoking and drinking are like women's love of snacks. Everyone has a little desire for food, as long as it is moderate and the pros and cons are weighed.