Six bottom lines of men that women should never touch

Everyone says that "people who say harsh words usually have good hearts", but there is also the warning that "misfortune comes from the mouth". Since not everyone can read your heart, you need to be more careful with your words when getting along with men and women. For this reason, as a woman it is necessary to know which bottom lines of men you'd better not touch.

1) Don’t ask a man about the details of his relationship with his first love

First love is a beautiful and sacred memory, which condenses all the memories of a man's first love. Although men at that time did not have sophisticated love skills, or even much money for their first love to squander, men at that time had a sincere heart dedicated to love. No matter what the ultimate reason is that causes a man to break up with his first love, it is an irreplaceable experience.

As a current girlfriend or wife, please don't ask about the details of his first love, because knowing too much will make you jealous; and don't ask a man whether he loves you more or his first love, because this is definitely a stupid question, because he is holding your hand at this moment. There is no comparison between the two relationships. The first love relatively guarantees the purity of the relationship, while the marriage partner is more concerned about the overall situation.

2) Don’t talk about divorce or breakup to men too often

Most of the time women talk about divorce or breakup because men have not done well enough. Women hope that by being aggressive, men will pay more attention to them. However, men do not think so. Frequent talk of breaking up or divorce will shake men's determination to continue loving. This is because men are unable to truly understand the specific meaning behind women's sarcasm to a large extent.

As far as women are concerned, if the person you love does not do well in some aspects, please do not say the opposite or hold a grudge, but convey your expectations to the other person in the simplest and clearest way. If the other person values ​​your feelings, he will improve his words and deeds. If he does not value you enough, or perhaps your initiative to break up or divorce will just make the man go with the flow.

3) Don’t keep a man tied to your belt all day

There was a woman who called her husband every half hour while he was at work, and they eventually divorced. After the divorce, the woman cried and said, I called him because I cared about him, wanted to know what he was doing, and wanted to share his joys and sorrows at work. The man smiled and said, she didn't trust me at all, and I feel relieved after the divorce.

From this we can see that a woman's concern for a man is seen as a lack of trust by the man. Although most women in real life do not supervise their husbands as excessively as making a phone call every half an hour, women must know the importance of giving men appropriate free space and never treat men like dogs.

4) Don’t be violent towards men during an argument

It is inevitable for couples to quarrel, but violence should be avoided during the quarrel. For example: Don't use your sharp nails to disfigure a man's face; don't pick up furniture and smash it around; don't kick a man out of the house and don't let him come back for a few days. For example: Don't stop talking to your man for a long time after an argument; don't scold his family during an argument; don't vent your resentment towards your husband on your children.

Arguing between couples is definitely a technical job. Some couples correct their shortcomings through quarreling, while some couples destroy their relationship because of quarreling. Therefore, during an argument, it is best to control your emotions and not be hysterical, otherwise you will hurt others and yourself.

5) Don’t have affairs outside of marriage and cheat on your husband

A woman may be able to tolerate her husband's betrayal many times, but a man has basically zero tolerance for his wife's betrayal. For this reason, married women should never have affairs outside of marriage, let alone have affairs everywhere, otherwise, their marriage may be in jeopardy. Even if a man reluctantly forgives you, he will remember the humiliation of being cuckolded and will find the right time to retaliate against you in the same way.

Men may appear more generous than women in many aspects, but when it comes to cheating, men are more petty than women imagine. A warning to all married women: if you have no intention of divorce, do not get involved in extramarital affairs. Once your husband finds out, you will probably have a very difficult life ahead.

6) Don’t use other people’s wealth to ridicule your husband’s poverty.

Married women often say, "Look how capable XXX's husband is." Married men usually respond like this, "He's so good, why don't you marry him?" Originally, it was just a sentence from the woman to spur the man, but in the end, it turned into a big quarrel between the couple. When a husband fails to make progress, it is not that a woman cannot seek justice, but she should not seek justice by comparing him with others. Because this way of seeking justice will not only not make a man reflect on himself, but will make a man think that you are a vain woman. When a woman meets a man who does not seek to make progress, how can she stimulate him? A woman can say: Husband, I want to live in a big house within ten years through the efforts of both of us. I am quite confident. What about you?