Expose him in one second! 10 classic lies of secretly married men

When it comes to women choosing men, it is really "difficult"! If you are not careful, you may meet a scammer who is secretly married during the relationship, and if you are not careful, you may become the third party who destroys other people's families. Here are 10 excuses commonly used by men in secret marriages to teach you how to expose the secret marriage scam.

1. Please give me a little more time.

A little time is really a vague concept. What does a little time mean? An hour? A day? A month? A year? A little time can also mean waiting for ten years. If you are willing to wait, a little time can even be your entire life. This is the most common and easiest to expose subtext. He is actually telling you "you have no chance".

2. I live a very unhappy life. My wife doesn’t understand me and I am very miserable.

Please believe that he is indeed in pain, but the main reason for his pain is that he did not get you. Happiness is something that cannot be achieved by one person alone. It requires the efforts of both parties. If one puts the blame on his wife for his unhappiness, it shows that he is heartless, righteous and irresponsible. What is there to love about him?

3. You are the cutest, most beautiful, smartest... (ellipsis can be used to add any beautiful adjective) girl I have ever seen, I love you.

Accept his compliments, but don't let them go to your head. Remember, before he says this to you, he may have said it to his wife hundreds of times. He says it effortlessly, even though it still seems new to you.

4. I can't give you a future, but I am sincere at this moment.

He puts the ugly words first, which shows that he is upright. However, there is no future after all, so why bother with him? There are many men in the world who you can like. If you hang yourself on his tree, in the end he will only say: You came to me on your own initiative. I told you before that this crooked tree of mine can strangle people to death.

5. We're just chatting.

Downstairs in the hotel, he invited you upstairs to chat, and then you never came out that night. Don't think you have much resistance. The young hormones plus his experienced teasing will lead to the birth of a scandal.

Continue to love him or give up on him? This becomes your biggest headache as soon as the sun rises.

6. I am not married.

He really looked young, dashing and charming, and everyone loved him. But this kind of man often suffers from amnesia and lies to you that he is not married, but after you fall in love with him, he will suddenly tell you that he is married. It's really despicable.

7. I tried my best to restrain myself, but I couldn't resist your temptation.

See, you seduced him, not him who provoked you. This type of married man is the type who takes advantage of others and acts ungratefully. It would be best if you kick him out and send him to exile. Don't worry, he is a veteran in the love field, and you are a rookie in love, not a heavyweight, and you can't beat him.

8. You can’t get pregnant.

You won't get pregnant, so there's no problem with having sex. He is experienced and knows how to use condoms. However, N years later, when you accidentally meet this man holding his fat son and his wife happily, you will suddenly realize that it turns out that there are times when he does not use condoms; it turns out that there are also happy women who can get pregnant for him, but obviously you are not one of them. Do you think it’s unfair? It’s too late.

9. I will go and talk to her tomorrow.

Don't worry, he will never tell it in his life. He will live with his wife forever, and if he is patient, he can handle the situation between you and her. But you will always be just a flash of lightning in his life, while others are his mountains, rivers and years.

10. I really want to say sorry to you.

Before ending, always say something nice, accept his apology, and if it doesn't make you feel better, just slap him in the face. After all, there is no better way to make up for the lost youth, damaged love, and increased wounds.

Please note, don't make the same mistake again.