The price a man pays for having sex

Core Tip: Most men believe that repeated sexual intercourse during a couple's sexual life is a sign of strong sexual ability. Therefore, in some male-only gatherings, you can often hear some men bragging about how many times they can have sex in one night to satisfy their vanity.

A statistic made by Americans

The shorter the sexual intercourse time and the worse the quality, the shorter the refractory period; and the longer the sexual intercourse time and the higher the quality, the longer the refractory period. This survey statistic is contrary to what most people think. Why is that?

Fundamentally speaking

Sexual intercourse is actually a process of "releasing" sexual energy. When sexual intercourse is short and of poor quality, the sexual impulse energy accumulated in the body is not completely "released", and the body needs to expel the "excess" energy. Therefore, the refractory period at this time is relatively short; and during a long and high-quality sexual intercourse, since the accumulated sexual impulse energy has been satisfactorily and completely "released", the body no longer has the need for sexual intercourse again. What is most needed at this time is rest and recovery of the sexual system. Therefore, the refractory period at this time is relatively long.

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The male-specific refractory period is a "protection procedure" in which the body "temporarily shuts down" the sexual system in order to facilitate the recovery of sexual system function. Forcing sexual stimulation during the refractory period and forcing yourself to have sexual intercourse again is to overload the sexual system. It is even more detrimental to the recovery of the sexual system, and if it continues for a long time it will easily lead to sexual damage and sexual dysfunction.

In clinical practice, we often see such cases:

Patients with premature ejaculation often forcibly stimulate their sexual organs and repeatedly have sexual intercourse in order to "compensate" for their deficiencies, which greatly increases the burden on the sexual system. If this continues for a long time, the body will "rebel". They often quickly begin to experience an excessively prolonged refractory period (more than 24 hours), which is an early sign of impotence. If patients do not receive proper guidance and treatment, it is difficult for them to avoid impotence.

So,

In the life of a couple, the most important thing is to completely "release" the accumulated sexual impulse energy, which is a healthy and high-quality sex life. Simply pursuing the frequency of sexual intercourse is unlikely to bring women a true orgasm.

Men want to fully satisfy women in their married life

This will satisfy your desire to conquer and greatly satisfy your self-confidence and self-esteem. This is the instinctive desire of men and also the requirement of social roles. This hope is normal, and our promotion of sexual medicine is to help them achieve this goal as much as possible.

To satisfy women in married life

The key is to keep the woman's sexual response cycle uninterrupted so that she can reach orgasm. To fully release her accumulated sexual energy, it is a matter of quality rather than quantity. If multiple sexual intercourses are of low quality, a woman's sexual response cycle will be interrupted many times and she will not be able to reach orgasm, and her accumulated sexual impulse energy cannot be released. This will make women more dissatisfied, irritable and even think that you are just venting your anger on her. This is really a thankless task. If you have a good "performance" in your sex life, there is no need to pursue excessive quantity.

Your best friend often brags to you that she enjoys orgasm every time she makes love, but you seldom have the opportunity to reach orgasm. Are you secretly anxious?... Get on the subway to orgasm. Of course, if you have strong sexual ability, master good sexual skills, and can control and wait until a woman reaches multiple orgasms before you reach orgasm (ejaculate). That would be the best, you will be a very happy person. But everyone should keep in mind the principle of natural sex health care, and don't force yourself or force your body to do something that will ultimately harm your health.