9 major insecurities of men and women after stripping off

Reading Tips: People who are not confident about their body usually do not think they are sexy, but self-confidence is very important because if you think your body is very sexy, your brain will start to send signals of sexual desire.

Are you afraid to get naked in front of the mirror, or do you always have to turn off the lights when having sex, just for fear that your lover will see your increasingly out-of-shape body?

People who are not confident about their bodies usually do not feel sexy, but self-confidence is important because if you think your body is very sexy, your brain will start sending signals of sexual desire.

Mirror, mirror, I'm the sexiest

Thanks to the media's heavy exaggeration, the myth of youth and beauty has become more and more serious. Many people believe that sex is the exclusive domain of handsome men and beautiful women. Without an angelic face or a devilish figure, there is no sexiness or charm.

But if you observe your friends carefully, take men as an example, the sexy goddesses in the eyes of men are not traditional beauties. These sexy idols that really attract them may look a little plump, or middle-aged, or their facial features may not be perfect, but because they exude vitality and enthusiasm from head to toe, they are deeply fascinating.

Have you also made the mistake of equating body shape with sexiness? Take a look at the following questions!

Four major fears women have about their bodies:

1. Weight:

Most women always feel like they are overweight.

2. Breast size:

Women either feel that their breasts are too big, too small, or sagging.

3. The passing of years:

Afraid of the appearance of aging such as wrinkles, sagging skin, and widening waistline.

4. Thigh:

In women's minds, perfect thighs can only be described by the word "slender".

Five fears men have about their bodies:

1. Penis size: Very few men are satisfied with their penis size

2. Receding hairline: Men are extremely afraid of becoming bald at a young age and losing their attractiveness.

3. Aging: Although traditionally gray hair and wrinkles on men were no big deal, this phenomenon has changed.

4. Lower abdomen: Most of a man’s fat accumulates in his beer belly. When he looks down and sees his bulging belly, he will feel extremely inferior.

5. Height: Studies show that women prefer taller men when choosing a mate, while short men tend to feel inferior.

Learn to pamper your body

You really should put aside these unrealistic standards. In real life, few people are born with a celebrity face, so why measure yourself with such high standards? It is recommended that you try to learn to pamper your body. Spend 15 minutes every day standing in front of a full-length mirror to examine your naked body. You can stand, squat or sit, admire yourself in the mirror, and then explore your whole body with your hands. Practice until you accept your body and enjoy the feel of your skin. If you can't love and appreciate your own body, who can you attract?

In addition to being confident about your own body, you should also actively give your partner praise and confidence. Pay attention to your partner's characteristics. Maybe he has beautiful hair, maybe he can gain weight to the point of being charming, or maybe his jawline is strong and resolute. No matter whether you are tall or short, fat or thin, as long as you are sincerely appreciated by your partner, no one can compare to you.