Why do men only want to be intimate and not take responsibility?

A man always thinks about having sex with a woman and maintaining an ambiguous relationship, but after a certain period of time, when the woman feels that it is time to get married, the man starts to disappear again. This is not an isolated phenomenon. Many people have encountered such a problem, and then men are labeled as not wanting to take responsibility. However, what kind of mentality do these men who only want to be intimate and don't want to take responsibility have?

1. It’s the nature of men

It is said that there is no man who is not lustful and unfaithful, and there is no woman who does not love beauty. Men's unfaithfulness is just like women's love of beauty, it is their nature. Studies have shown that a certain hormone in a man's body can stimulate his brain, making him unable to resist the temptation of beauty and appear lustful. Sexual health (sex.exun120.com)

When many men are unfaithful, their bodies seem to be controlled by some kind of hormone, as if they have lost their reason and control.

If you look closely at the men on the street, you will find that even if something big happens, they will stop to look at a beautiful woman. A beautiful woman wearing sexy clothes or with a special hairstyle will make a man's eyes linger on her.

We cannot prevent men from being lustful or unfaithful, but we can make men know when to stop, because being too lustful will become a crime. It is disgusting when a man stares at a woman with lustful eyes and even drools at the corners of his mouth.

After all, beautiful women will feel a sense of satisfaction when they are looked at by men. However, if you use a pair of eyes like searchlights, as if peeling off a woman's clothes layer by layer, and have a malicious smile on your face, such a man will only make women feel disgusted.

2. House and bride price: the pain of men being responsible

Being responsible for the past intimacy means getting married and starting a family, just like in the feudal era, after having physical contact, one must marry the woman and be responsible for her. However, being responsible comes at a price.

The popularity of TV series such as "Dwelling Narrowness" and "House Is Not Protected" has brought the big problem of housing to the attention of the audience, and housing has also become a pain for men when they get married. Throughout history, before getting married, the man and woman would discuss together where and how to hold the wedding banquet, how to give at the wedding, and how much to give.

The ancients believed that a married woman was like spilled water, and belonged to her husband's family. The hard work of her parents in raising her over the years would be measured by the bride price, which was regarded as a reward for their years of nurturing. Therefore, houses and betrothal gifts became the pain that men had to bear.

In today's society, people are becoming more and more utilitarian. Many girls tend to worship money and become gold diggers, treating marriage as a transaction of money. If you don't have a house, a car, or money, don't even think about marrying her. The high housing prices make many men hesitate to get married.

How many men of marriageable age can afford to buy a house with sky-high prices?

3. Pursuit of Freedom

Almost everyone believes that getting married means losing freedom. You can no longer come home late or stay out all night, and you can no longer go out to nightclubs with your friends, because there is a woman waiting for you at home, and if you come home a little late, the phone will ring like a chain of cannonballs.

How many men are willing to lose their freedom and be restricted like this?

4. He doesn’t love you enough

If a man loves you enough, no matter how many external factors he encounters, he will break through the siege and make it for you. If he doesn't want to be responsible for you after being intimate, then he only treats you as one of those women in brothels, who he can have a one-night stand with and will not cherish you.

If in his mind you are just a tool to solve physiological problems, he will not let himself be bound by you from now on, and he also feels that you are not worth his efforts.

Men only want intimacy and don't want to take responsibility. As a woman, there is no need to be sad about this. It's not that you are not good enough, but some men don't know how to cherish you. Why should you make yourself sad and cry about it? Open your eyes and look for your own happiness again, and you will find that your happiness is not far away.