The women men want at different times

Men's first emotional stop: before marriage

Before marriage, a man hopes to have a beautiful, well-educated, gentle and charming woman to accompany him.

Because they are beautiful, they are "attractive to the eye", pleasing to the eye and "a feast to the eyes"; because they are well-educated, they must be well-educated, cultured, graceful, and charming, just like Ziwei in the TV series "My Fair Princess", which makes men feel proud and balanced in their hearts; and gentle women are favored by masculine men because the feminine beauty of women can harmonize a man's overly "rigid" character, making them "complementary to each other in yin and yang" and "combining hardness and softness". No wonder our mentor Marx most admired the quality of women as "gentleness". It can be seen that "gentleness" is a woman's secret weapon and the "trump card" of a man's emotions. As a result, countless men have become "captives" of women.

The second stop for men’s emotions: after marriage

After marriage, men not only depend on women, but also obey them. Because of the love and care of a virtuous wife at home, a man can deeply feel how good it is to have a home. Home thus becomes a "resting haven" and a "warm paradise" for men... In order not to disappoint their wives' expectations, men often work harder, make more progress and have more prospects in their careers.

As time goes by, the man becomes successful in his career and the "honeymoon" between husband and wife is no longer a "honeymoon". As they spend time together day and night, what is new is no longer new, and what they know is known, thus entering the "running-in period" of the husband-wife relationship. As the years go by, there is a saying about men that there is a "seven-year itch".

At this time, due to frequent social interactions and increased temptations, when men face the women they like, their state and performance are unusual, regardless of their purpose. First, it shows that the ideals are lofty and not that of an ordinary person, and wins with outstanding professional level; second, it shows that the person is extremely talented or well-read, knowing astronomy and geography, as well as music, chess, calligraphy and painting, and can be said to know everything, as if he is well-versed in history and can predict the future; third, it shows that the language is witty and humorous. No matter what kind of people or the ancient "art of sex", the topic can be integrated and told in a leisurely manner. It is called noble science and advocates civilization. He can even talk about topics that women consider sensitive without any hesitation, and his words sound like pearls and powerful. It can be said that it is in the perfect state of "When emotions are deep, there will be poetry; when ideas are strong, there will be rhyme."

The third stop for men’s emotions: extramarital affairs

Of course, words are words and performance is performance. Whenever a man faces an extramarital affair, there are only two situations.

First, as a female writer described it: "Men are just like dogs. Due to their different structures, it is not a big deal if they go out to pee a few times in their lives. They still have to go home and are loyal. Dogs are loyal." This statement confirms the secular evaluation of men: "They love new things but do not dislike old ones." Some people compare the feelings of such men to "sesame cakes", which can be divided into several pieces and can fall in love with several women at the same time.

Secondly, men are purely lustful. When faced with a woman of their dreams who has a different style, temperament, and appearance, they will always express their envy in different ways and with different expressions, with a kind of greedy attitude of "eating from the bowl and looking at the pot". To be honest, most men just stay at the "lustful" stage, but have not become "lechers". They treat the women around them with "respect like guests", "close but not too close" and a certain distance, and will not easily offend her or possess her. If you ask this man who "all talks and no action" why he likes to appreciate "beautiful women", he will give a nice name for it: "keeping a young mindset." It seems that female beauty has added another value. For most men, even if it has no "use value", it still has "appreciation value"...

But knowing what men want, what can you do?

In fact, no matter how things change, the most important thing is not to lose yourself...