7 things that drive married men crazy

There will always be friction in the life of a couple after marriage. Let’s take a look at the following 7 things that will drive a man crazy.

First, cheating on your wife

There is no need to explain why someone has an affair. It is the most painful thing for a man, and the ending is of course divorce. If there were no children, it would be easy, just go our separate ways. Having a child makes things very troublesome for two people. If you just make do with what you have, life will be worse than death; if you cut off all ties, the child will become the victim again.

I once had a friend who divorced quietly and didn't tell anyone about it. It was only a year later that his friends found out that he was single. The reason is that his wife cheated on him. When dividing the property during divorce, the man, in order to show his magnanimity, left the house with nothing and even borrowed money from everywhere to make ends meet at the beginning of the divorce.

If this happens, how painful would it be for a man?

Second, the Hedong Lion Roar

The girl who used to be a little bird and dependent on men suddenly turned into a roaring lion after marriage. You can imagine how the man felt. It is too unmanly to confront each other, and family conflicts will be intensified and even out of control! Compromise. Being weak and vulnerable means being taken advantage of, and in the long run, you will definitely get bronchitis and ear candy. Although it is a small matter, if it happens every day, it will drive a man crazy.

There was a man whose wife yelled at him for seven years. Divorced. He said that he could no longer bear the feeling of being a slave and being scolded every day.

Third, suspicious and jealous

This kind of thing also makes men angry. Catch-and-seek evidence, interrogate day and night, this kind of life is really not a life for human beings.

A man divorced his wife after being married for more than ten years. His wife said every day that she suspected he was having an affair, and she interrogated him, followed him, and forced him to report it every day. He couldn't stand being interrogated every day and got divorced. In order to prove that he has not had an affair, he has not married yet.

Fourth, economic dictatorship

The wife is the housekeeper and holds the financial power. This is normal. But if the wife is autocratic and engages in economic dictatorship, the man’s life will be difficult. Think about it, all the money you earn should be handed over to the government every month. You must apply for money in advance and the application must be strictly approved. There was only a little money for transportation in his pocket. More importantly, when men are out, they need money for everything. If my wife doesn't approve, or if she doesn't approve it in time, I can't get the money. Men often find it difficult to move forward.

There was once a man who forgot to apply before going out. I didn’t even have the money to go home, so I had to borrow money from my friends. Very embarrassing.

Fifth, the battle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Have you ever enjoyed the feeling of being attacked from both sides and being treated like a nobody? A man must have this feeling.

Think about it, one is your wife, who has accompanied you through your life! The other is your mother! The one who gave birth to you and raised you. And these two women. To compete for the same man. For baby feeding and education issues. Because of lifestyle issues. There is bound to be some friction. Once a woman gets angry, she won't listen to reason and will only vent. So men become punching bags.

6. Extravagance and waste

Most men don't have a lot of money and don't have a lot of cash. If your wife has been spoiled and extravagant since childhood. Men have a hard time. I know a man. My wife is very generous with her money. She earns 3,000 yuan a month, but she only buys clothes that cost 2,000 yuan a piece. A month's salary was spent in half a month. It's very difficult to have only half a month left, and I always have to borrow money temporarily to get by. Buying a house is even more of a distant prospect. After spending all her money, she still complains that her husband is a loser and can't make any money. The man was very angry and later divorced.

So, men are in the dating stage. You must stay away from girls who are extravagant and cannot afford to support themselves.

7. Vanity and sophistication

First of all, this kind of woman is very vain, very concerned about her reputation, and compares herself with others every day. Compare food, clothes, houses and cars. Women's vanity and sophistication can become shackles on men's heads. Xiao C is such a woman. Compare yourself with others every day. My husband finally earned enough money to buy a two-bedroom apartment, but she insisted on buying a large house of 120 square meters. Ask your husband to ask his parents for it. My husband doesn't want to touch his parents' pension money. As a result, the two had a big fight and the house was not bought. Later, housing prices soared, and the money that could have bought two houses could only buy one house. The woman was furious and called the man a waste. The man was very angry and got divorced.

This kind of woman often looks down on a man's poor relatives, which makes the man very embarrassed. They often cannot tolerate men's parents.