Women have six major desires in bed

The Popular Health Network recently published an article pointing out that many men do not understand women’s inner thoughts. The following are some "sex secrets" that wives keep deep in their hearts. Only when men know these can they better motivate them to have sex.

1. "I am most aroused by pleasant conversation."

Before sex, women like to talk to men about their lives and thoughts. They want couples to be able to relax and talk on the sofa, or chat while taking a walk. At this time, if the man can say some sweet words like "I love you" or "I care about you very much", the woman will have a strong sexual desire.

2. “For women, sex is inseparable from life.”

Men can often separate factors such as the pressure of life from sex, but women cannot. How her lover treats her outside the bedroom directly affects her performance in bed. For example, being indifferent to her, speaking harshly, or using a rude tone will make her unable to devote herself to sex and become passionate.

3. "I will be anxious about aging and afraid that I will lose my attraction to you."

For older couples, wives are often afraid that they are no longer as attractive to their husbands. For this reason, many women dare to take off their clothes only after turning off the lights. Careful men can sense this anxiety of women. If she is no longer as pretty as a flower, there is no need to lie to her or say that she is no longer attractive. You should show her through your actions to let her know that she is still attractive to you.

4. "Please don't be so serious during sex."

Sex is essentially a "game," but many men take it so seriously that they forget to laugh and engage in romantic, naughty behavior. This often makes sex stressful and dull, and neither man nor woman can experience the pleasure of sex.

5. "I like physical contact and caressing, sometimes not sexual."

Women love romance, and hugging, holding hands and kissing make them happy. But many women complain that men rarely perform this kind of intimate behavior with them except for foreplay. Therefore, hug and kiss her often and she will feel happy.

6. "After sex, I want more tenderness."

Some women complain that men fall asleep right after having sex. Indeed, many men no longer show any affection once they have an orgasm. But at this time, women want more hugs or a longer chat, which can make them more satisfied.