Women hate these words most after going to bed

Appropriate pillow talk can make the relationship between couples closer, the marriage happier, and can also serve as a good foreplay for sex. But there are skills to pillow talk. Sexologists from Britain and Canada have summarized some "things you shouldn't say in bed" and would like to share them with readers.

"Things you shouldn't say in bed" mainly include some overly practical and complaining topics, as well as words with negative and negating meanings. These words can affect mood, make people anxious, and even lose their sexual desire and desire to talk. Common words include:

"Have you brushed your teeth?" The subtext of this sentence is "Honey, why do you have bad breath!" This will greatly reduce the other person's sexual interest and will also worry about continued criticism.

"Have you paid the electricity bill?" Talking about financial issues shows that you are not invested in the intimate world of the two of you. This will make your lover start to think about the bill and even feel guilty, which will make people lose passion.

"How did your child behave in kindergarten today?" As the two of them were chatting quietly, neither of them wanted to be "disrupted" by this troublesome topic. Maybe your children are well behaved, but bed is not a good place to discuss educational issues.

"I really want to clean the house thoroughly." Talking about your "cleaning list" is undoubtedly a public display of your distraction and lack of sexual interest, and it also shows that you have not considered the other person's feelings at all.

"Wait a minute, I'll send a text message!" In a world of two people, the most disappointing thing is to contact a third person. Maybe your text messages and phone calls are important, but don't bring them to bed, otherwise your lover will feel ignored.