Uncovering the Four "Unspoken Rules" of Chinese Ambiguity

The inherent reservedness of the Chinese people has long since disappeared. What replaces it is the ambiguous and passionate feeling of seeing flowers in the fog and the moon in the water. This kind of ambiguity is the most intoxicating. It neither agrees nor resists - in short, it is shy like Mona Lisa smiling. Your heart is itching and you can't wait to strike quickly, ruthlessly and accurately. But Chinese people are particularly concerned about their reputation, so ambiguity must be played to perfection.

I can tease you but you can't disturb me

Some people say that ambiguity is false love. I think that ambiguity doesn’t even count as love. When you love someone, you won’t play around and then stop playing. Just see if the other party takes the bait, and if so, kill him (her). If he doesn't take the bait, then try another one. That depends on whether the person is willing. Ambiguity is the cheapest and most boring form of flirting. In the end, it ended in a dismal manner with little interest.

2. Secretly happy but definitely not true love

I have said before that ambiguity does not count as love. It's just a lonely and boring game between the sexes. The greatest pleasure is to do it secretly without anyone knowing. Once the emotional world is invaded, everyone will feel something is wrong. People who are in true love will not play ambiguous games with others. Those who play with ambiguity do not really like that person. It's just for fun, and the other party likes this way. One is cheaper, two is more cost-effective.

You should feel honored to be flirted with

People who play with ambiguity usually have a common problem - that is, being self-righteous. She (he) thinks she (he) has the ability to be ambiguous with whoever she (he) likes. Moreover, being chosen by her (him) as the ambiguous object is the best luck in eight lifetimes. In fact, ambiguity and being ambiguous are two-way and interactive. Those who play with ambiguity are not necessarily smart. Being treated with ambiguity is not necessarily an honor. However, they need each other.

4. You're not the only one playing

Chinese-style ambiguity involves more than just one person. She (he) will cast a wide net and then take the bait whoever takes it. If the harvest is rich, then progress will be made on several lines at the same time. If there are only one or two, you can still have a lot of fun with it. Ambiguity is like a skill you have mastered. If you don't use it to your advantage, you will feel uncomfortable. Of course, there are times when ambiguity succeeds, and there are times when ambiguity fails. So, how can one person be enough?

If you play with ambiguity, you will end up hurting yourself and others. If you can, stop it...