Why do men like to have three wives and four concubines?

Why do men desire polygamy? Although they sound very reasonable and seem to have sufficient reasons, in fact, it can be summed up in one word: "selfishness." A specific analysis is nothing more than the following points.

First, the pursuit of freshness and excitement

Always facing the same woman, even if she is a beauty, after looking at her for a long time, there is no novelty in her. There is a saying: Your own children are good, but someone else's wife is good. The meaning is clear: when they are familiar with a taste, they want to change it. How to change? Throw away the old one, it doesn’t fit, so you start to yearn for polygamy. What's more, the world outside is very exciting, living standards have improved, and there are suddenly more beauties, which dazzles men. They really hope to hold all the beauties in their arms. Can't bear to give up this, but can't let go of that, what better way is there besides polygamy? In this way, you can satisfy your desires and gain a good reputation, it's really killing two birds with one stone!

Second, deliberately avoiding housework

Today's monogamy has made housework equalized. Men have to put aside their pride and pick vegetables and wash dishes, sweep the floor and do laundry. They are even forced by their wives to do housework when their favorite basketball program is on. These things make them feel very unfair. How to solve the problem? If you just tell your wife to do it alone, there is really no reason to do so. The best way is to marry more wives so that they can share the housework and will not affect your time watching TV, surfing the Internet, swimming, and playing ball. Even if he can't do more, if each wife does less, he can get away with it. Where can he find such a good thing?

Third, spiritual fast food after meals

Some things, the more unattainable they are, the more mysterious and tempting they seem. Just like the moon in the sky, it is just a piece of cold stone. However, because it is in the sky, people imagine it to be infinitely beautiful, with osmanthus trees and gentle little white rabbits. Let’s not talk about them. The best thing is that there is a beautiful Chang’e who is otherworldly! When men are free, they always like to fantasize about things that cannot be realized. Monogamy has been deeply rooted in people's minds, and it is impossible to change it. What can we do? The only way to solve it is to rely on fantasy. I have already been taken care of by my wife and have become rosy-cheeked, happy and fat, but I still need a "spiritual fast food" from time to time to fill my empty brain and comfort my lonely soul.

Fourth, ease the tight fiscal expenditure

Women today are no longer the women of the old times who could only do housework and take care of children. They also go to work to earn money to supplement family expenses. Are they afraid of biting their hands if they have too much money? Therefore, polygamy is indeed a good way to ease financial expenditure. Going to the bar, drinking coffee, even going out to get corrupted and dating girls, which one of these doesn't cost money? Where does the money come from? If your own money is not enough, you can always use your wife's. After all, the law stipulates that the income of husband and wife is common property. Since it is shared, there is a reason to enjoy it.

Fifth, shift the focus of conflicts and wars.

In a monogamous relationship, there are bound to be some bumps and conflicts. When there are conflicts, the anger will naturally be directed at the husband. If polygamy is implemented, the chances of conflicts between wives and husbands will be relatively reduced, and the conflicts will naturally shift to among the wives. Watching them fighting openly and secretly while standing by and watching, one may inevitably laugh secretly. No matter how much they quarrel or how much they fight, at least they no longer cause me trouble, and I should thank God for that.