How can couples keep things fresh?

When everyone is harvesting love, they also hope that their marriage will be happy and perfect. However, everyone knows that love generally has a shelf life. In fact, the same is true for marriage. It also has a sense of freshness. Most couples will slowly lose interest in each other after living together for a few years. As a result, many people quarrel on a regular basis. Frequent quarrels are very hurtful to feelings. So how can couples maintain freshness?

The secret to a long-lasting marriage

Exclusive "heart" time for two people

It’s not the private moment in bed! It’s the communication of the soul that is the exclusive time for two people. Take out half an hour every week and choose a quiet, comfortable place for a heart-to-heart talk, such as at home, provided that the children and parents are not at home, the TV, computer and mobile phone are not turned on, the couple can sit on the carpet and drink a cup of hot tea and talk. During this half hour, you will put all your energy into the world of two people, listen to his mood, and talk about your own ideas. Once you develop this habit, the situation of "We are together every day, but I understand you less and less" will never happen between you.

Use the phrase "Are you tired?" to soothe his heart

According to the survey, the phrase that wives like to hear their husbands say most is “I love you”, while the phrase that husbands like to hear their wives say most is “Are you tired?” So even though a virtuous wife knows very well how tired her husband is and prepares a rich dinner or a hot bath for him every day, she should still ask this question, because rubbing his shoulders can soothe his tired body, but these words can soothe his heart. He will feel that he has married the most caring wife in the world, and that all the hard work is worth it for your happy family. In addition, couples should express affectionate gestures to each other, such as a kiss before going to work, or if he/she hands you a vegetable basket or a briefcase when he/she walks in the door, you should still go up to him/her and kiss him/her. If he/she asks you in surprise why, you can just look him/her in the eye, smile and say: No reason. This can touch his/her heart more than just saying "I love you".

Want to keep your compliments valuable? Just once a month

In fact, men are sometimes like little children, and they really need your praise and compliments in their hearts. When he does something well, just say loudly "Hubby, you are great, you are awesome", and he will feel happy in his heart for a long time. Or you can praise him in front of friends and family, for example, "my husband is such and such", he will be even happier. But pay attention to the frequency, just praise him once, otherwise your praise will depreciate.

Handwritten love letter

Except for text messages and WeChat, write a love letter in the form of a letter. With the sweet feelings you had when writing love letters in your school days, you can also use the other person's birthday or wedding anniversary, which will become the perfect content for a love letter. Not only will it make you who is writing the letter this year and him who is receiving it feel the beauty and happiness of being in love, but in the endless years to come, as long as you turn over the envelope, the love hidden in it will still emanate, lasting and fragrant.

Change the house to find love

A woman wants to change the look of her home every year. It is best to get her husband involved and ask him what kind of furniture he likes and what color tones he wants to create a warm and romantic home. The dependence and love between them will become stronger.

Travel once a year

Couples should travel once a year. Don’t worry about the cost or whether the destination is romantic. The key is whether it can add warmth to the love between you two.