This way, she will never be rejected at any time.

Experiencing sexual stimulation is a very exciting thing, and everyone likes the touch that can bring sexual pleasure. And, while massage itself is a treat, it can be even more pleasurable if the person doing the massage is your sweet lover. From helping your lover who is unhappy at work to relax physically and mentally to helping her prepare for the ecstasy moment during lovemaking.

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Buy High-Quality Massage Oil

High-quality oil will not penetrate the skin too quickly, giving you enough time to spread it evenly and calmly. When purchasing, you should also be extra careful about the fragrance of the massage oil. Overly strong scents can feel pungent, and no one wants to feel like they're in bathroom deodorant during sex.

The ideal approach is to choose your favorite scent based on the theory of aromatherapy, because different scents have different effects on the human body. For example, the scent of lavender has a hypnotic effect; the smell of eucalyptus oil makes people wake up, but it may be too irritating for sensitive skin. When purchasing, it is best to ask the store clerk for advice.

Make the room feel appropriate for this time of total relaxation

Turn off the lights and light a scented candle. Similarly, the theory of aromatherapy also applies when choosing the scent of candles. The aroma should be light and acceptable to both of you. If you like, you can also burn some incense to create a trance-like feeling.

Self-massage

Before you use your hands to sweep your partner off his feet, give yourself a massage first. Just wrap a towel around your body to make it easier to reach all areas. Pour some massage oil into your hands and warm it slightly, then use your fingers to massage the tendons at the back of your neck.

Next, gently rub your arms and shoulders. Use your fingers to slowly make circular motions on your temples; then rub your chin, as that is where you often feel tense. Not only does self-massage get you more into the mood, it also gives you a great way to warm up your fingers before you start massaging your partner.

Get started

Have her lie naked (or half-naked) on the bed, face down, in a comfortable position. Apply the massage oil evenly to her entire back. Use the palm of your hand when applying, and each stroke should be smooth and steady. Don't pinch too hard, otherwise she will not only feel uncomfortable, but may also get bruises. You can use a little force when kneading, and the movements should be slow.

Remember to do it with affection. When massaging her shoulders, be careful not to squeeze the muscles around her collarbone too hard, as that could cause her excruciating pain. He pulled her arms and gently kneaded her biceps with his fingers.

The back massage mainly focuses on the sides of the spine, but never press hard on the spine itself. Use upward pressure movements along the spine all the way to her tailbone. The area at the base of the spine should be caressed as much as possible because it is very sensitive and has many nerve endings.

Take your time and patience with the process and show her that you are willing to devote your life to her. Make it clear that she can reach out and touch you any place on your body she wants at any time. It's a gentle caress rather than a hard squeeze.