Is it healthier for the man to be on top and the woman to be on the bottom, or for the woman to be on top and the man to be on the bottom?

The ideal way, of course, is to have ups and downs, sometimes up and sometimes down, and no matter whether they are up or down, everyone has something to do. That's right, we are talking about nothing else but what happens in bed. A wife wrote to say that every time she lay in bed, she didn't know what to do. She often just hoped that her husband would finish his work quickly so that she could wash up and go to bed early. You see, this is obviously the approach of people who have not tasted the sweetness.

There are many types of people who cannot appreciate the pleasure of sex. Some are conservative people who love it to death but have an attitude of "I never play this"; some have physical problems, they may be impotent or have narrow penises, etc., and sex really brings them pain; some have psychological barriers, they reject this thing, thinking "how can I do it!" Letting go of all the self-imposed limitations in your heart is the first step to enjoying sex. Next comes the so-called technical issues.

In fact, many women, like the lady mentioned above, feel that their role is to lie down and bear everything. She can "endure" whatever the man does on top. Viewing sex from the perspective of tolerance is basically a wrong mindset.

Secondly, why do men have to take the initiative? From the beginning of flirting, it seems that it is all men's business. Moreover, only when it comes to that critical moment, he has to be hard enough to enter. After that, he has to do dozens of push-ups. It is really tiring. Of course, they like to take the initiative, but it would be a good change to let them be passive occasionally, lying in bed and letting others do whatever they want.

Women are less physically durable, so they cannot sprint dozens of times at a time like men. However, they can have different postures. For example, they can lie down (which is less strenuous) with their hips raised, and then rotate clockwise or counterclockwise like a washing machine stirring clothes. The key is to lift and stick tightly, the effect is no less than the force of a sprint, many men will surrender after being turned a few times.

Warm tip for both sexes: The change in posture is often not because the new posture is really more stimulating, but because it represents the dedication of both people to the matter. Therefore, whether above or below, on the left or right, facing or with your back to the other person, because of the love for the other person, you hope to find the way that the other person likes most. This heart is truly touching.