Three characteristics of hair can reflect sexual ability

Hair is one of the signs of a person's "secondary sexual characteristics" and the only sexual characteristic that a person can show off publicly. Beautiful hair and a pleasing hairstyle often bring people a joy that comes from the heart. The graceful, elegant, soft and charming feminine beauty, as well as the strong, bold and unrestrained masculinity that it promotes and displays, all reveal the connotation of human sexual culture. Can hair reflect sexual ability?

Three features that make you look young: thick, black and shiny

A happy and harmonious sex life can promote hair growth. Most people whose hair is still thick, black and shiny after middle age have the same sexual function as before and still retain their youthful vitality. Sexual repression will slow down hair growth, and sexual dysfunction often causes hair diseases. Severe hair loss and sparse hair are also signs of decreased sexual ability.

The reason why some men are afraid of baldness is that hair has a symbolic function, and baldness often symbolizes the decline of energy. Hair has special sexual connotations and hides the genes of love. No wonder the ancients likened it to "three thousand strands of troubles" and some people today call it a unique body language that carries a lot of sexual information symbols. So, whether you are a man or a woman, how can you not cherish the beautiful hair on your head?

Hair has a "distracting charm"

The famous sexologist Ellis said in his book "Sexual Psychology": "Hair is extremely seductive. It is related to the four senses of sight, hearing, smell and touch in sexual selection." In interactions with the opposite sex, people attach great importance to the grooming of their hair, especially young women, who carefully and meticulously dress up. For thousands of years, people have expended endless financial, mental and intellectual resources on shaping, dyeing, curling, straightening, gluing, powdering, perming, tying accessories, braiding and greasing their hair. For example, in medieval Persia, poets praised women's curly hair hanging down their temples as "a mysterious charm that makes people lose their rationality."

In the evolution of human society, hair styles have reflected the degree of sexual repression and freedom. Becoming a monk or nun by shaving one's head is a high level of attainment for those who have seen through the mundane world. It means that from then on, one will enter the monastery of emptiness, lose all hope, and have nothing to do with sex. In some countries, soldiers and prisoners shave their heads, which implies prohibition and deprivation of sexual activities. On the contrary, when a woman lets her hair down, especially all at once, it can be understood in the West as a sexual symbol of indulgence and striptease.

Men caressing their hair is a sign of sexual affection

Out of respect for hair, no one will touch other people's hair easily under any circumstances unless they are lovers, elders or barbers. For young men and women in love, hair is one of the reasons why they are attracted to each other. The girl's beautiful hair makes the man who admires her feel excited, and the man's short black thick hair is also very charming in the eyes of the girl. When men and women are emotionally impulsive, they always touch each other's hair involuntarily. A man's kissing and caressing of a woman's hair is an expression and behavior of sexual love. Regardless of ancient or modern times, most women understand the beauty revealed by standing in front of the window and combing their long hair, as well as the charm and romance of seeing their hair gently brushing against their forehead under the warm light.

And sitting on your lover's lap and playing with her hair that exudes a subtle fragrance is undoubtedly more arousing. That is why there is a chant like this in "Midnight Song": "She used to not comb her hair, her beautiful hair fell on her shoulders, and it lay gently on my lover's lap. How could I not feel pity for her?" This mood, which is both tender and romantic and sexy, often becomes a wonderful prelude to sex. Even the charming female ghosts in "Strange Stories from a Chinese Studio" would dress up seductively whenever they wanted to "seduce" their favorite scholars, and their long hair, which could not be tidied up, made the scholars fall in love with them. During sexual intercourse, women often have their hair flying on their shoulders and sideburns, whether intentionally or unintentionally.

Hair has been a token of love since ancient times

Since ancient times, hair has been associated with marriage and sometimes used as a token of love. People call the first union between a man and a woman "the marriage of husband and wife", and the blessings to the newlyweds are often "grow old together". When a girl gives a commemorative box containing her hair to her beloved, it is tantamount to her entrusting all her emotions and even her soul to that person. Classical operas often feature descriptions of hair-cutting vows and solemn oaths, with the ending being "tying the knot to become husband and wife, with undoubted love between the two."

It is said that Yang Guifei was punished by Emperor Xuanzong of Tang to return to the Yang family for seclusion and reflection. Three days later, the person sent by Xuanzong to check brought back a lock of the concubine's hair tied with a colorful silk rope. Xuanzong was so sad that he immediately sent someone to pick her up in a fragrant carriage and favored her even more from then on. Abroad, the ancient Tlaxcala people in Mexico had to shave their hair when they got married, both men and women, to indicate that they would "give up any activities that young people would engage in from then on."